Good news on the therapy front
Apparently it was the psychologist who was being a gate-keeping arse. My psychiatrist was satisfied when I said a) I have had 3 months of private gender counselling and b) I'm not actually getting any therapy at the gender clinic. She is going to get the psychologist to send a letter to Charing Cross, possibly with the outcome that ChX writes back saying 'gender is fine: fix other things pls'.
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