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[nyanchan]

When you first meet someone, you either feel something or you don't, right? This person is interesting, this person is cool, this person has something that I like and I want to get to know them more. So you start to get to know them better, and if things go well you become friends. But how do you know where the line between friends and lovers lies

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[waku_waku]

hmmmmm.. first off, I think I am fail in this stuff. Ok, so now that I have said my warning.. I will say what's in my head..
I think.. The waiting can both be bad and good. It is good, to make the moments last, to make "collect" all those fun moments and cherish then. The waiting game turns bad and messy when roommate changes- as in change in attitude, lifestyle, schedule, circle of friends, whatever.

Change screws everything. That's just me. But to me, it is the only way to see if there was/is really that something that you could hold on to, or hope for. Sometimes, we get used to a routine, or a certain comfort level and a certain togetherness that we fail to realize that everyday, things can happen and it will all change in just a blink of an eye. That's why sometimes couples test each other, or some girls make their guys jealous, or some pretend to get "mad" even when they are not. This is all in the name of getting a reaction, or what the other person will do if something changes. Will the other person "chase" after you? Will the person miss you etc etc. To me, this can lead me to an answer and what effect I have on that person. The real answer may not be obtained from that alone, but it gives you an idea of the person's level of attachment through the reaction. But getting the reaction we want is another thing...

I hope this made sense, and I sure hope it all works out in the end for you. *hugs*

[nyanchan]

You're right, change is a necessary evil. I guess it's just a matter of waiting to see what that change is and dealing with it when it happens=)