Oct 20, 2005 09:44
If a man wants you,nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because he was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no,you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better.
"You'll be mad at yourself if things don't get better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change his behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are
even if he has more education or a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let him define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending-compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships-there is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you-
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals-
look for someone complimentary not supplementary.
Dating is fun even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes-when a man always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
That's enough venting for right now, these are all the things I learned this summer... don't allow people to walk all over you. Do what I didn't and step up to the plate and let him have it...