hmm
I feel like I just had a uereka moment for a few things. I always said I just people by their morels... or whatever, if they reasonable are happy based on their beliefs or (I am forgetting a word) I was fine, so long as it didn't hurt me, or anyone I cared about. I need to do this to things and concepts and everything. Why isn't something working? What is its nature? How can you use THAT as its strength? If its nature is contrary to your desire, find something else. ahh... it makes so much sense to me in my head, just I have that feeling it won't make sense to anyone else, or even me in the morning...
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