Update, Don;t read if you don't want to hear me whining.
Some of you know and some of you don’t. I had been living with people who I thought were really good friends since I moved back to Dubuque. For the way my eyes don’t work and the fact hat because I am mostly blind and can’t drive or anything like that it is easier for me to live with other people. Well in May I had one of those friends tell me AFTER I had just gave them the money for rent and all my bills that they wanted me to move out by the end of the month. After giving them all this money I was left with very little. I wouldn’t have been enough to put a deposit down on a place even if I could have found one in Dubuque, which is having a housing shortage right now.
Luckily I have another friend who had a room that I could live in for less money then what I had been giving the other people anyway. I had asked they ones that were kicking me out if they would help me move, since they kept saying that it was nothing personal they just didn’t want roommates anymore but their actions did not back up their words. They did offer to pro rate me my money back depending on how fast I got moved out. Which was less then a week after they told me they wanted me out. They did nothing to help me move expect sit on the couch and watch me. When I said something about it after I was done their response was “ you never asked for help.”
SO I got moved out asked about he money they said they would give back to me and the one friend got all up in my face about how she couldn’t give me the money right now and how this wasn’t personal but if I wanted to make it that way she could do that. Anyone who really knows me knows that I am a marshmallow I have no spine and I hate confrontation of any sort so I backed down.
The next month I called and asked about he money and it was one excuse after another, and then they tell me that while I pay rent forward I pay utilities backwards so out of the over $400.00 I gave them what they owed me was $150.00. Now this is the first time I had ever heard about paying utilities back but rent forward before when I needed to give them money it all went the same direction. They couldn’t afford to give me all of what they owe me that month though so they just gave me 550.00. I find out later from another friend that they are making plans to go to another Renn faire and going out all the time, okay whatever.
Then this month I have called twice and they have not returned my call either time. I find out from another friend that they are pissed because according tot hem I am the one that is being hostile and not acting like a friend because I don’t want to go over and game with them.
If I wanted to dot hat thought I would have to pay them money to A come get me and take me back to their place because they never game anywhere but there and B, this part I can understand that they charge if I wanted to have dinner there while we games Okay they bought the food fair enough butt hey charge more then what I would pay for a full meal at some restaurants and I don’t even get to take part of the leftovers. So haven’t had the money. Plus I was tired, very tired of the favoritism that was going on in the game currently being ran anyway.
Even if they are mad at me for that they could answer my call and it doesn’t stop them from owing me money. If they were the ones that were owed money to they would have threatened to call the cops about it by now but I am not that much of a bitch. I*f they could afford it I would understand BUT they just bought a new washer (which they were talking about on facebook) and bought their 14 year old daughter a $200.00 cell phone. Needless to say I am just a little peeved at the situation.
Then on top of this I have other health issues, the probably having glaucoma thing as well as other things. The part of this that upsets me the most is loosing people that I thought were friends. I don’t have enough friends that I can afford to lose some because they are being pissy.
Of course according to some people that I also used to be friends with all I should have to do is give a blow job and turn on the waterworks and I will get my way.
Yeah I wish it worked that way but it doesn’t I have to work for things too.
Luckily I have another friend who had a room that I could live in for less money then what I had been giving the other people anyway. I had asked they ones that were kicking me out if they would help me move, since they kept saying that it was nothing personal they just didn’t want roommates anymore but their actions did not back up their words. They did offer to pro rate me my money back depending on how fast I got moved out. Which was less then a week after they told me they wanted me out. They did nothing to help me move expect sit on the couch and watch me. When I said something about it after I was done their response was “ you never asked for help.”
SO I got moved out asked about he money they said they would give back to me and the one friend got all up in my face about how she couldn’t give me the money right now and how this wasn’t personal but if I wanted to make it that way she could do that. Anyone who really knows me knows that I am a marshmallow I have no spine and I hate confrontation of any sort so I backed down.
The next month I called and asked about he money and it was one excuse after another, and then they tell me that while I pay rent forward I pay utilities backwards so out of the over $400.00 I gave them what they owed me was $150.00. Now this is the first time I had ever heard about paying utilities back but rent forward before when I needed to give them money it all went the same direction. They couldn’t afford to give me all of what they owe me that month though so they just gave me 550.00. I find out later from another friend that they are making plans to go to another Renn faire and going out all the time, okay whatever.
Then this month I have called twice and they have not returned my call either time. I find out from another friend that they are pissed because according tot hem I am the one that is being hostile and not acting like a friend because I don’t want to go over and game with them.
If I wanted to dot hat thought I would have to pay them money to A come get me and take me back to their place because they never game anywhere but there and B, this part I can understand that they charge if I wanted to have dinner there while we games Okay they bought the food fair enough butt hey charge more then what I would pay for a full meal at some restaurants and I don’t even get to take part of the leftovers. So haven’t had the money. Plus I was tired, very tired of the favoritism that was going on in the game currently being ran anyway.
Even if they are mad at me for that they could answer my call and it doesn’t stop them from owing me money. If they were the ones that were owed money to they would have threatened to call the cops about it by now but I am not that much of a bitch. I*f they could afford it I would understand BUT they just bought a new washer (which they were talking about on facebook) and bought their 14 year old daughter a $200.00 cell phone. Needless to say I am just a little peeved at the situation.
Then on top of this I have other health issues, the probably having glaucoma thing as well as other things. The part of this that upsets me the most is loosing people that I thought were friends. I don’t have enough friends that I can afford to lose some because they are being pissy.
Of course according to some people that I also used to be friends with all I should have to do is give a blow job and turn on the waterworks and I will get my way.
Yeah I wish it worked that way but it doesn’t I have to work for things too.