(Untitled)

[nubianfaith]

ok so i realize i am male and therefore am not supposed to be able to understand females. this being said anyone who might be able to help me understand this please try and explain this one to me. ok so she loves me but she cant be with me cause she cant handle it. she wants to be friends with me but she thinks we need to stay away from each other

Comments

Re: dont assume too much

[nubianfaith]

actually she didnt really spell things out cause i dont think she really knew/knows what she wants. that isnt ment as an insult to her in any way shape or form. but the changing of her mind so often suggests that she isnt sure that she is doing the right thing either way she turns. it wasnt till well after the initial entry was made that she explained anything to me as to why she was doing what she was doing. when i posted this she had not told me what she was feeling or thinking. i have tried to give her whatever she has asked for and i would hope she knows i love her. i think she does know as much as i have expressed my concern for her well being. i would tell her but i think that would make thing awkward and i have been having a hard time judging her mood and reactions. she seems so distant and indifferant lately when we talk on the phone and when we hang out shes so tierd from her jobs and other things it is difficult to tell her mood. i dont know. she will find her way to happyness and herself and what it is she wants. and mabye in the future when she has found herself and figures out what she wants things can be differant for us. until then i will be there for her the best way i know how. and if we are to never be agian i just hope i dont lose another friend in this process.