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I'm hoping that I get suspended more often. It's better than going to school and listening to their bullshit. Plus I haven't done any work..which I'm gunna get hell for when I return. Oh well.
So what I don't get is all these girls who think they *have* to have a boyfriend. What's up with that? I have one person in mind but I do know a lot of other girls who are the same way. Having a boyfriend is fun and all. I'm not saying it's a bad thing. But sometimes it's just not worth it. Like that *girl*..she acts completely different ever since she's had a boyfriend. She doesn't talk to any of her old friends. They only people she hangs out with are her boyfriends friends. And her boyfriend acts like he'll kill himself if she dumps him. He's all obsessive. He's even thinking about marriage! But I'm sure it's all an act. It's not like they've never broken up before..and he seemed to be fine to me. The good thing is that he supposedly "loves" her. And she needs that. But having to be at her house every weekend and whenever they have free time..seems a bit much. And she is all like "Well I think I love him but I just get sick of seeing him all the time. And I can't stay with one person the rest of my life can I? I don't think it will last..but he IS talking about marriage." I try to explain that if she wants to "experiment" with other guys than go for it. One relationship for the rest of your life isn't exactly healthy. And their relationship, to me, isn't a very good one. But she says that the reason she won't dump him is because she is too afraid that she will never get another boyfriend. For one thing, she could get another one if she wanted to..she is really pretty..even if it isn't from school. And there are plenty of guys out there she doesn't need to settle right away. Than she thinks that she will never have sex again. She's pretty addicted for someone who only slept with one person. But I know how she is and that won't be a problem for her. She flirts enough as it is lol. I hope she realizes that she will live without him. And probably be better off. I know I'm not exactly the right person to go to with relationship problems because..well...I've got more problems than anyone. But still..I don't think people should be dependant on having a boyfriend or girlfriend for the rest of their lives. It's sad.
One last thing....I've been asked to stay in a hotel with Kandis..her bf...and Jake next weekend. Wow. Should I go? I don't know.