Try.

[nshoe]

All methods of human communication suffer from some flaw - some methods offer too much insight, some don't offer enough. Some things can't be communicated by some methods, other things will be warped by the method they are communicated. Some times it is better to stay silent, other times the silence is more damaging than communication.

All we can do is try. Try to be understanding. Try to be caring. Try to be considerate. Try to be loving.

Yoda was wrong - it is not do or do not.

All we have is try.