Decisions suck man
I KNOW I have like 8 months to decide what I wanna do but I just cant make up my mind!! Since hubby is going to Iraq for 7 months and when he gets back he gets out 2 months later there is no reason for me to stay in Hawaii. By me going home for 10 months we can save 17K on BAH alone...Id be a fool not too!!
WHere to live is the problem! Im going to have my things shipped home into Storage. I cant and wont live back at home. Im too old for that plus Im set in my ways. Jay and I talked and he said "why dont you go live somewhere you always wanted while Im gone" so since he WONT live in the South I figured why not. Im trying to decide between somewhere in Tennesse, Alabama or North Carolina.
I think if I got us settled in Tenn I could get him to stay. its close to home but not right down the street of course. He mentioned living in Atlanta. I dunno! I do know for sure that wherever Im going to get a job..that money will go towards my rent n stuff so we can save his checks. I cant decide if I want a roommate either...I think I would be happier by myself. I want to rent a house on like an acre of land so Kai will finally see what it feels like to have a yard. Ive been looking at houses and they are so cheap..we could so afford it but I know my conscience wont let me buy a house without him here.
Ugh I wish I had a better idea of what Im going to do!!
WHere to live is the problem! Im going to have my things shipped home into Storage. I cant and wont live back at home. Im too old for that plus Im set in my ways. Jay and I talked and he said "why dont you go live somewhere you always wanted while Im gone" so since he WONT live in the South I figured why not. Im trying to decide between somewhere in Tennesse, Alabama or North Carolina.
I think if I got us settled in Tenn I could get him to stay. its close to home but not right down the street of course. He mentioned living in Atlanta. I dunno! I do know for sure that wherever Im going to get a job..that money will go towards my rent n stuff so we can save his checks. I cant decide if I want a roommate either...I think I would be happier by myself. I want to rent a house on like an acre of land so Kai will finally see what it feels like to have a yard. Ive been looking at houses and they are so cheap..we could so afford it but I know my conscience wont let me buy a house without him here.
Ugh I wish I had a better idea of what Im going to do!!