I wrote this..Thought it should be shared
I am going through a divorce, I say this because I learned a lot from being married to him. The reasons for the divorce? Ask him, I have my opinion he has his. Not that his is more acurate than mine, or vise versa. I guess maybe a lot of reasons. Regardless though it was our marriage, even if was not perfect, even if it was for a little while, but for that little while it was really good, he and I know that, and one day he may actually be able to admit it without fear of anything. Things only changed because he had to go to Iraq. He and I know that had he never left, things would still be good. I am thankful though, we loved each other very much, I know this now. Even with the head games that had been played to try and hurt me more, I know he was in love for a while. Again, one day he may be able to admit this to everyone. We just let too much happen too soon, and too many people got involved which lead to the complete demise of our marriage. I will be thankful for the experiance I had with him, and for the good memories, I'll even be thankful for the bad, in reality, when it is all said and done. The good will always out weight the bad. I hope that one day, he will be able to admit it too. Everything in this life happens for a reason, sometimes we don't know that reason right away, but when we do, when it becomes clear we usually see that reason is usually the best thing.