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Heres that post I have been putting off forever.
Long story kinda short- I brought Melissa down here for a while and things were great. After I felt that she was really to a place that she had grown up and gotten past her issues I decided to bring her back down here to give things a long term try. When she got here she was dealing with the fallout of her last relationship and I didnt want us to be a rebound relationship so I gave her time and space. She put up walls and pushed away from me instead of talking things out and went to Tony to talk things out. She then broke things off with me and got with Tony.
Sense then I have worked through things with Tony pretty well but she has refused to be open and talk with me. I was hurt that in spite of how long we knew etchother she would do this to me and even more so that when she saw that I was in pain she hardly made any effort at all to support me.
A lot of drama kicked up over nothing and she is convinced I was lying about something very stupid. Even after a 3rd party layed out exactly what happened she turned it into a consperiacy theory that we collaborated a story to sell to her. At this point I was fed up with doing everything I could to fix our friendship and even more upset that she was starting stupid drama over nothing and calling me a lier; Saying that she couldent trust me at all. I layed out that I no longer have any desire to be her friend and I was immediatly relieved of so much stress. I feel really good right now. Better than I have felt in a while. I am upset that its come to this but I cant allow myself to tolerate this kind of treatment.
So thats the story.. Parts of it anyways. I left out other fun things like Melissa thinking I was stealing her pills.. Good times.
Long story kinda short- I brought Melissa down here for a while and things were great. After I felt that she was really to a place that she had grown up and gotten past her issues I decided to bring her back down here to give things a long term try. When she got here she was dealing with the fallout of her last relationship and I didnt want us to be a rebound relationship so I gave her time and space. She put up walls and pushed away from me instead of talking things out and went to Tony to talk things out. She then broke things off with me and got with Tony.
Sense then I have worked through things with Tony pretty well but she has refused to be open and talk with me. I was hurt that in spite of how long we knew etchother she would do this to me and even more so that when she saw that I was in pain she hardly made any effort at all to support me.
A lot of drama kicked up over nothing and she is convinced I was lying about something very stupid. Even after a 3rd party layed out exactly what happened she turned it into a consperiacy theory that we collaborated a story to sell to her. At this point I was fed up with doing everything I could to fix our friendship and even more upset that she was starting stupid drama over nothing and calling me a lier; Saying that she couldent trust me at all. I layed out that I no longer have any desire to be her friend and I was immediatly relieved of so much stress. I feel really good right now. Better than I have felt in a while. I am upset that its come to this but I cant allow myself to tolerate this kind of treatment.
So thats the story.. Parts of it anyways. I left out other fun things like Melissa thinking I was stealing her pills.. Good times.