this is all hypothetical of course...

[notkeepingquiet]

so lets say you found a recycable...
you arent attached or have those kind of feelings that will get you hurt which is always a plus...
the only catch is this recycable...kind of a close friend to someone you cosider your best friend...
do you tell your best friend?

Comments

[leahisneat]

considering past experiences with similar situations, sandra my dear, im gonna go with yes you should

omg

[notkeepingquiet]

i kinda know what you are referring to, but its totally diff than our past situation. this is more like lets say i was a dude and we were best friends...if i was sleeping w/katie, do i have to tell you?

Re: omg

[leahisneat]

I guess not...but I'd be pretty weirded the hell out if I found out some other way. I guess it depends how often the sleeping with is happening and if its something that kinda has to be sneaked around about...like for example, katie and my male best friend would have to kind of "make sure" that I wasn't gonna be around, or didnt realize the two of them were alone together. If I ever found out later I'd be like "So thaaaats why she always asked me when I was gonna be home" and I'd be weirded out.

Re: omg

[notkeepingquiet]

i would say its not a situation that has to be snuck around about...i dont see why it would be. but how would I (as a dude, being your bf)bring it up so that you didnt find out some other way?

:/

p.s.
whatever is said in the private LJ STAYS in the private LJ!!!!!
NO JOKE!

Re: omg

[leahisneat]

if its a best friend , just bring it up however you feel comfortable