Mar 29, 2005 21:08
There is no easy answer, but first off, accept the event. Don't chase the other person begging and pleading. I am a firm believer that whatever is meant to be, will be, that things happen for a reason, even if it is less than obvious at the time. That which does not kill us makes us stronger. Just try to keep your chin up, keep faith in yourself, because it isn't your fault if things didn't work out. You will be happy someday. Just try to learn from the event - what was the good, what was the bad? Don't wallow in self-pity remembering the good times only - try to see the whole picture of whatever it was. If nothing else, you deserve to be with someone who truly loves you. Confidence is most attractive to others whether you are male or female, so you should work on your self-esteem if you can't believe that there is someone out there who will love you and treat you as you deserve to be treated.
lol should b doing the eco paper instead