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so what i've been noticing lately is that people have been putting too many eggs into one basket. a lot of people just seem to be putting too much stock into relationships that don't really matter. im not trying to give relationship advice or saying i know your life any better than you do, but i'm just calling them how i see them.
its straight economics really... increase your marginal benefit and make yourself happier. if you're in a relationship and you're not happy, next the person youre with and find someone else. now i'm not saying this should be applied universally in all cases, but if you've been unhappy with your partner for a while, tried to make a change for the better and got no result, i'd say next them. it sounds cold hearted, but if you're not happy with the relationship and your partner knows it, chances are they're not happy either. i'm tired of reading about all these problems in trivial relationships of like <6 months. its foolish. the chances of you finding the person you love in high school are slim to none, not a fun idea to look at, but let's face it, the notion of a "high school sweetheart" is highly fucking outdated. if you don't believe what i'm saying, look at your parents and how happy they are and let that be a measuring stick for your own life. so i guess what i'm trying to say is, relax, have fun, don't take things so seriously and guess what? life will get better :] i guess i'm sort of out of line posting this, but whatever, take it how you want it. i just feel that taking life much slower has improved the quality of my life and made it easier for me to try to do the things i want to do. i can't wait for summer and to go to the gym and see my friends and be happy and healthy. i don't mean to sound all smart and shit either like i know what's up because i really don't. i dont think college has made me that much smarter in terms of books, but it sure as hell has taught me a lot about interacting with people. and for that, i am grateful.
its straight economics really... increase your marginal benefit and make yourself happier. if you're in a relationship and you're not happy, next the person youre with and find someone else. now i'm not saying this should be applied universally in all cases, but if you've been unhappy with your partner for a while, tried to make a change for the better and got no result, i'd say next them. it sounds cold hearted, but if you're not happy with the relationship and your partner knows it, chances are they're not happy either. i'm tired of reading about all these problems in trivial relationships of like <6 months. its foolish. the chances of you finding the person you love in high school are slim to none, not a fun idea to look at, but let's face it, the notion of a "high school sweetheart" is highly fucking outdated. if you don't believe what i'm saying, look at your parents and how happy they are and let that be a measuring stick for your own life. so i guess what i'm trying to say is, relax, have fun, don't take things so seriously and guess what? life will get better :] i guess i'm sort of out of line posting this, but whatever, take it how you want it. i just feel that taking life much slower has improved the quality of my life and made it easier for me to try to do the things i want to do. i can't wait for summer and to go to the gym and see my friends and be happy and healthy. i don't mean to sound all smart and shit either like i know what's up because i really don't. i dont think college has made me that much smarter in terms of books, but it sure as hell has taught me a lot about interacting with people. and for that, i am grateful.