Hmmm...
I realized tonight that my ex's onagain, offagain girlfriend is very negative. About everything. All the time. Wow. I'm younger than her, and somehow I seem to see reality more clearly than her. She somehow seems to imagine that I still have romantic feelings for her love intrest. No reassurance that I married the man I dated after I left him, that I'm planning a life with children, that I have a million problems other than juggling her and him and the irrelevant stress and fuss that comes with the whole package. As I said once in a letter to him, whom I still maintain a friendship with and get along with quite well, "She is Alice...she needs to EAT ME and grow up."