big, 3 part, post
I'd like to tell you a little story now...ladies if you got a man, husband whatever you want to call him, and he don't do exactly like you think he should...don't cut him because you can't raise him up again. Don't hurt him treat him niceand fellas I want to say to you, if you got a wife, woman or whatever YOU want to call her, she don't do like you think she should, don't go upside her head, that don't do but one thing, that make her a lil smarter, she won't let you catch her the next time. So all you do is talk to her softly, real sweet ya know, and tell her...I know you'll do better.......-the one, the only BB King
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Secondly
along that note
A NOTE TO ALL GIRLS...including Arin....
There may be some guys who freelance, but...as far as I know, this rings true for all of us. See...guys, males, whatever...in our job description, we have this quota of stuid shit we must say. There has to be one thing you will consider over dramatic relating to sports or movies, or both. At least one macho thing or arrogant thing. And who know's how many dumb comments when it comes to you(the girls). Now, the first two come pretty easy to most, but...for some the third is a little slower to come around. I am actually worried cause I fear that I haven't reached my quota for 05 yet...which brings me to my point. It isn't our fault, it isn't intentional...our brains just don't want us to be fired from our gender, so they make us say these stupid things, and now that its the end of the year, many of our brains may scramble to make us as dumb as possible before the new year. So just a warning and disclaimer to you(girls including arin, if we(guys, including myself)do or say something stupid...don't cut us loose or go upside our heads...go ahead and put us through some hell...cause it happens and we get smarter(yes...men can get smarter in spite of our already amazing intelect)(and I was kidding...) and it seems the longer you are alive, the quota begins to lighten, figuring...you're going to do enough stupid shit on your own...there's no need to force it anymore.
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girls and guys
far too often we are trying to diagnos shit that doesn't need it these days I think...I mean, medically or pyschologically. I think the most common among these are depression and ADD. Not to say that everyone who has those is just bsing and there is nothing physically the matter with them, and not to say that medicine isn't necessary in all cases...but in most...I think it is. I think there are far too many times where we will try and deflect sadness into something that is out of our control by calling it depression. While it may be depression, and it may be physical...there was no zoloft back in the day...and if you look at the population of the earth next to the number of people currently on antidepresents...that means one of two things. Either...its not that bad, or everyone who wasn't depressed before was horny as fuck. But...my main point isn't...lets bash people with disorders. Its...lets stop people from letting themselves think they have them. Lets not just pigeon hole anyone who had a bad day as manic, or someone who is chipper or hyper as ADD. Its good to be sad, and hyper...(not at the same time), they are normal traits that everyone has...and it seems now, many times, bad parenting = "ADD", or bad relationships=biological depression...its not the person themselves doing it...its assholes and dumb fucks putting their own shortcomings off on the unfortunate situations of others to make themselves feel better and its bullshit. I'll stop now, and FYI this part was written with one person in mind, who won't read this...so no one take personal offense, take general offense if you want, whatever...but none of this was directed at any of you as an attack, simply as an open forum to my thoughts...later
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Secondly
along that note
A NOTE TO ALL GIRLS...including Arin....
There may be some guys who freelance, but...as far as I know, this rings true for all of us. See...guys, males, whatever...in our job description, we have this quota of stuid shit we must say. There has to be one thing you will consider over dramatic relating to sports or movies, or both. At least one macho thing or arrogant thing. And who know's how many dumb comments when it comes to you(the girls). Now, the first two come pretty easy to most, but...for some the third is a little slower to come around. I am actually worried cause I fear that I haven't reached my quota for 05 yet...which brings me to my point. It isn't our fault, it isn't intentional...our brains just don't want us to be fired from our gender, so they make us say these stupid things, and now that its the end of the year, many of our brains may scramble to make us as dumb as possible before the new year. So just a warning and disclaimer to you(girls including arin, if we(guys, including myself)do or say something stupid...don't cut us loose or go upside our heads...go ahead and put us through some hell...cause it happens and we get smarter(yes...men can get smarter in spite of our already amazing intelect)(and I was kidding...) and it seems the longer you are alive, the quota begins to lighten, figuring...you're going to do enough stupid shit on your own...there's no need to force it anymore.
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Last-
girls and guys
far too often we are trying to diagnos shit that doesn't need it these days I think...I mean, medically or pyschologically. I think the most common among these are depression and ADD. Not to say that everyone who has those is just bsing and there is nothing physically the matter with them, and not to say that medicine isn't necessary in all cases...but in most...I think it is. I think there are far too many times where we will try and deflect sadness into something that is out of our control by calling it depression. While it may be depression, and it may be physical...there was no zoloft back in the day...and if you look at the population of the earth next to the number of people currently on antidepresents...that means one of two things. Either...its not that bad, or everyone who wasn't depressed before was horny as fuck. But...my main point isn't...lets bash people with disorders. Its...lets stop people from letting themselves think they have them. Lets not just pigeon hole anyone who had a bad day as manic, or someone who is chipper or hyper as ADD. Its good to be sad, and hyper...(not at the same time), they are normal traits that everyone has...and it seems now, many times, bad parenting = "ADD", or bad relationships=biological depression...its not the person themselves doing it...its assholes and dumb fucks putting their own shortcomings off on the unfortunate situations of others to make themselves feel better and its bullshit. I'll stop now, and FYI this part was written with one person in mind, who won't read this...so no one take personal offense, take general offense if you want, whatever...but none of this was directed at any of you as an attack, simply as an open forum to my thoughts...later