Weeping with those who have lost their unborn baby in the disaster in Japan (11-03-11)
Disaster… panic… loss…
Now Japan has own The Day of Human Grief.
All of us here: Japanese and non-Japanese have the same feeling: we are scared, we are lost, we are hopeless, we do not know what can occur each next second…
It happened unexpectedly as a disaster is. It took away people who we loved so much. It destroyed us and changed from who we were before. Now all of us, no matter much or less, are a victim of the natural disaster.
Some of among us passed away, some of maybe, but we hope not, because they are still missing, some of missed us. There are many various of losses...
One of the loss is very intimate.
If it happened to you, believe, we know how do you feel.
It was fragile, only your yet, secretly happiness.
Probably it was bit bigger and your man, and your mother knew already about your secret.
Maybe it was just several weeks until your happiness could appears in this world. So, you see, we know what it was: your small did-not-show-up-yet-baby, your wonderful future, your new life with him or her on your hands.
It was scary, very suddenly and too dangerously to be enough calm and think about something else besides surviving only at that moment. You did right and what happened could not be avoided at all under the certain circumstances. It just occured: you have lost your unborn baby.
Now you are also lost...
We are crying with you, we are holding your hands, we can feel how shrieked your soul.
Do not think that you are alone with this grief, we and our tears are with you right now.
We would like to say to you more than you are even ready to think about at this time: your baby will be back to you definitely and very soon.
Just believe us!
With Love,
Tatiana A. Romanova &
Tokyo Humanized Care Center (Japan)
Now Japan has own The Day of Human Grief.
All of us here: Japanese and non-Japanese have the same feeling: we are scared, we are lost, we are hopeless, we do not know what can occur each next second…
It happened unexpectedly as a disaster is. It took away people who we loved so much. It destroyed us and changed from who we were before. Now all of us, no matter much or less, are a victim of the natural disaster.
Some of among us passed away, some of maybe, but we hope not, because they are still missing, some of missed us. There are many various of losses...
One of the loss is very intimate.
If it happened to you, believe, we know how do you feel.
It was fragile, only your yet, secretly happiness.
Probably it was bit bigger and your man, and your mother knew already about your secret.
Maybe it was just several weeks until your happiness could appears in this world. So, you see, we know what it was: your small did-not-show-up-yet-baby, your wonderful future, your new life with him or her on your hands.
It was scary, very suddenly and too dangerously to be enough calm and think about something else besides surviving only at that moment. You did right and what happened could not be avoided at all under the certain circumstances. It just occured: you have lost your unborn baby.
Now you are also lost...
We are crying with you, we are holding your hands, we can feel how shrieked your soul.
Do not think that you are alone with this grief, we and our tears are with you right now.
We would like to say to you more than you are even ready to think about at this time: your baby will be back to you definitely and very soon.
Just believe us!
With Love,
Tatiana A. Romanova &
Tokyo Humanized Care Center (Japan)