You hurt now. Imagine how much more you would hurt if you really tried to be what you're not. Sweeping feelings under rugs? It doesn't work. You can try to hide something, but the fact is, things don't just disappear. Feelings don't just disappear; they wear pretty disguises, is all. If this makes sense. If I make sense. Maybe I don't.
I don't think any of us have answers for you. We can say pretty things or not-so-pretty things, tell you the sky will always be blue and the grass will always be freshly mowed. It doesn't mean much. True, friends keep you going, and they're important, but ultimately, YOU run your life and YOU have the answers to your questions. We see things about you that maybe you don't see, but in the bigger picture, YOU know better than all of us combined what you're all about.
Never apologize for it.
The way you are will make you lose many things. Some of them will be silly losses and others will be devastating. This is life. Sometimes, there's just nothing you can do.
The way you are will also bring you many victories. Friends who genuinely appreciate you, undying love, grattitude, smiles and laughs.
Love yourself. Even if you're not sure where to begin, just try.
You hurt now. Imagine how much more you would hurt if you really tried to be what you're not. Sweeping feelings under rugs? It doesn't work. You can try to hide something, but the fact is, things don't just disappear. Feelings don't just disappear; they wear pretty disguises, is all. If this makes sense. If I make sense. Maybe I don't.
I don't think any of us have answers for you. We can say pretty things or not-so-pretty things, tell you the sky will always be blue and the grass will always be freshly mowed. It doesn't mean much. True, friends keep you going, and they're important, but ultimately, YOU run your life and YOU have the answers to your questions. We see things about you that maybe you don't see, but in the bigger picture, YOU know better than all of us combined what you're all about.
Never apologize for it.
The way you are will make you lose many things. Some of them will be silly losses and others will be devastating. This is life. Sometimes, there's just nothing you can do.
The way you are will also bring you many victories. Friends who genuinely appreciate you, undying love, grattitude, smiles and laughs.
Love yourself. Even if you're not sure where to begin, just try.
Live a life, not an apology.
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