Jul 27, 2006 13:46
her house has an awesome entrance..the ceiling has a dome with this awesome lantern made of 5 glass balls dangling from a metal centerpeice.. her bedroom door is shaped like an indian door frame--very taj mahal-ish. al her doors in her house are etched..no plain normal doors.. and her bathroom... incredible. she has a built in tub for two that u step into from 2 steps.. her shower is awesome.. its the glass kind without the "tub part" she just has it on the floor, with a slight elevation of tiles to keep the water from running out.. very very nice.. her accessories were soo so cute and cozy and it just made me wanna get married too ;-P
enough about the house.
i went to the bday at abu el seid, zamalek. it was my first time at that branch, definetly the nicest one of them all..behind me was 3asy el Hilany (lebanese singer) sitting with two plastic looking nasty lebonese sluts (they looked like music video dancers with too many nose and boob jobs).. ya haram all the famous lebonese stars are hanging out in egypt now. shimi just saw Jad choueri last week at la plage..
it was fun. i love k's family a lot (except his mom of course) ;-P
Z and i caught up, she's always a lot of fun, and i promised to hook her up with B (yes, the B from the weekend incident) despite my many warnings that the guy is a dirty flirt but she's still really interested..
as for the situation with B, i had finally decided to cut him off for a while til he sort of "forgot" about marina so we could life back to normal again.. he called me during the bday with the excuse that K's phone was turned off and couldnt reach him (which it wasnt) so i just said, "oh he's right next to me, here u go.." and gave k the phone. Anyway, i sms'd him today and just said, movies tonight at 7, wahid min el nas, u in?" and he said, "sure ya amar." My paranoia mode is back on and i dont feel comfortable with him calling me that. Its his style i know, but after what happened i dont feel like its just 3ady anymore. He's making me nervous. I obviously didnt tell K about anything, but K already is jealous that B talks to me way too much when B is supposed to be his freind not mine, now i see his point.
yesterday i told E i was mad at him for not showing up to my bday, not answering my phone calls when i called him, and not answering my message the next day checking to see if he was ok..its not his style, he is usually so muhtaram, i never saw the bad side of him before.. so he came over and apologized and told me what happened.. His intro to the story was that it was a big secret, he didnt tell any of his best friends, not even K, and he's only going to tell me..(whichc really means something to me) and he told me about how ya haram his best friend (she's 20 and she lives alone) was messing around with her boyfriend and gave in and namit ma3a and lost her virginity and afterwards she was a total wreck and was hysterical and basically E spent 4 days at her house trying to prevent her from having a psychic trauma from sex in the future. he even talked to her bf about what he planned to do, but el 3ars said she did it willingly so its not his problem. ya haram E wanted to kill him, but he couldnt bc if he did, word would get out about why and what happened and her reputation would be gone.. So the only thing E could do for her was give her a heavy dose of progesterone to make sure she doesnt get pregnant, and coached her through it and told her it would be ok.. hes such a good friend. she was asking him about getting a hymenorrhaphy done, but E didnt know what to tell her.. on one hand the idea of it is simply unethical, on the other, guys in our society are pigs and while its socially acceptable/preferable that a guy is a player, a girl must be a virgin before marraige. in my opinion, and that's what i told E, one time is not gonna remove it all anyway, if she doesnt do it again, there will be enough remenants left of it that she will bleed the next time and the idiot she marries will probably never know the difference.
the story merely reflects my belief that all straight men are bastards, even if we love them anyway.
tayeb, i'm bored and hot, i think i will shower til the maid finishes cleaning my room (oh i sound so spoiled dont i?) I need to get some good books to read during the day or i'm seriously going to become a replica of my useless couch potato mother. suggest good books for Nora!!