Back to feeling sorry for the loser
So there was a brief period where I thought I might be in some kind of danger from this stalker, but now I think he's just pathetic. So he called me again today. Texted me too, but I'm not responding. The text said: "Sorry to even bother you. Seems like you hate me now anyway. So I know you careless about any problems I have. Like I said you were someone I could talk to very easily before and none of my friends are really any use. But... nevermind I am probably just wasting your time and mine. Take care and bappy bday remember u said its this weekend or was it your sisters. Guess doesn't matter any how. Sorry for whatever I did again I have idea but like I said it doesn't matter now." Then I got another one a little latter that said "Know you're not religious but you said your family is so if you could keep my uncle andy in their prayers I'd appreciate it. They just took him off life support today."
So I guess now (and I hope I'm not wrong) he really is harmless and pathetic. He's a lonely loser that got obsessed when I showed him the least bit of compassion. I feel like he needs to try to make one new friend a month.
Well the voicemail I got was just as dull. "um hi pam its bryan look I know you don't want to talk to me anymore but um my uncle just got put in the hospital he had a heart attack and idk none of my friends i can't really talk to my friends about it and I kind of need someone to talk to but I understand you don't want to talk to me but I was kind of hoping you would I'm scared I know you don't want to be friends or anything if i need to talk to someone about this and you're really easy to talk so idk but if by chance you want to talk you have my number give me a call I imagine you're at work if not thats fine but then take care I'll I hope you do tomorrow."
So he was the one telling me he had a friend that was a psychologist and I needed help 10 days ago? Looks to me like he needs the help. If he has a friend thats a psychologist and willing to talk to me then why wouldn't she be willing to talk to him? What a fucking loser! I wonder if he really even has a dead uncle now or if he made it up. I'd almost feel bad either way if he wasn't bitching about his uncle when we went to lunch. He was pissed that when his grandfather died he was promised stuff and his uncle took it. I said it was his uncle's father he probably deserved it more than a grandson. He was acting more like a spoiled child at that point. If he can still live with his parents at 30 I'm sure they're going through the same issues so he should just talk to them. I'm glad I didn't get the message until after I left work or else I probably would have been a little freaked out again.
I should stop over analyzing everything he said, but now its just funny. He's such a mumbler I couldn't tell if he was just mumbling or if he was choking back tears. I really couldn't understand the last part of that voicemail. If he calls me tomorrow I might just pick up and tell him to fuck off. Idk what I'm going to do. Maybe I'll call his house and talk to his mother and tell her to help him because he's reaching out in all the wrong places when he should be able to get the love he needs from her. Who knows? I doubt this is the end of it.
So I guess now (and I hope I'm not wrong) he really is harmless and pathetic. He's a lonely loser that got obsessed when I showed him the least bit of compassion. I feel like he needs to try to make one new friend a month.
Well the voicemail I got was just as dull. "um hi pam its bryan look I know you don't want to talk to me anymore but um my uncle just got put in the hospital he had a heart attack and idk none of my friends i can't really talk to my friends about it and I kind of need someone to talk to but I understand you don't want to talk to me but I was kind of hoping you would I'm scared I know you don't want to be friends or anything if i need to talk to someone about this and you're really easy to talk so idk but if by chance you want to talk you have my number give me a call I imagine you're at work if not thats fine but then take care I'll I hope you do tomorrow."
So he was the one telling me he had a friend that was a psychologist and I needed help 10 days ago? Looks to me like he needs the help. If he has a friend thats a psychologist and willing to talk to me then why wouldn't she be willing to talk to him? What a fucking loser! I wonder if he really even has a dead uncle now or if he made it up. I'd almost feel bad either way if he wasn't bitching about his uncle when we went to lunch. He was pissed that when his grandfather died he was promised stuff and his uncle took it. I said it was his uncle's father he probably deserved it more than a grandson. He was acting more like a spoiled child at that point. If he can still live with his parents at 30 I'm sure they're going through the same issues so he should just talk to them. I'm glad I didn't get the message until after I left work or else I probably would have been a little freaked out again.
I should stop over analyzing everything he said, but now its just funny. He's such a mumbler I couldn't tell if he was just mumbling or if he was choking back tears. I really couldn't understand the last part of that voicemail. If he calls me tomorrow I might just pick up and tell him to fuck off. Idk what I'm going to do. Maybe I'll call his house and talk to his mother and tell her to help him because he's reaching out in all the wrong places when he should be able to get the love he needs from her. Who knows? I doubt this is the end of it.