fark
Why is it that I am the only person my boyfriend can stand up to?
am moderately annoyed at boyfriend who planned an entire trip to VA beach this weekend like, 2 months ago. and was planning on spending all day sunday at the beach and all day monday looking at schools for him to transfer to, and then tells me last night (subtly so he thinks) that he is working Sat night now and so we cant leave till sunday morning. am tempted to tell him that i no longer want to go since i feel like ive been superbusy for the last 2 or 3 weekends and need some time where i feel un-rushed as I am getting horribly distracted at work due to lack of down time. probably tho, he will just go without me then which i dont really want him to do. since he will then pick out someplace to live (knowing him) without even asking me and its pretty likely we will be living together next summer assuming i dont end things due to his uncanny knack at being flaky/unaccomodating.
persistent problem in relationships, that i have super flaky boyfriends. perhaps i do it subconsciously b/c i hate changing plans and resist doing anything sans planning whenever i can. i still cant believe he promised me a day at the beach and now i am getting "leaving at 8 am and not getting to do anything that day since it takes like 4 hours to get there". I bet he doesn't spend 4th of july with me either even tho he asked me to take it off which I did b/c he "probably" wont be working (like he "probably" wasn't working this saturday, either). oh well at least my roommate and i have a charcoal grill and a 7-11 up the street with all the beer we can drink.