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this has been brought to my attention by a certain friend and it's just one of those things that makes you think....so what do you look for in a relationship? a husband/wife possibly in the future?
1. it is important to me that my husband/bf get along with my friends. at this point in my life, my friends are what drive me. they are my family here in new orleans (granted i have family around here), so their opinions are what matter to me. they are my objective conscience, so what they say matters to me. it is important to me that my friends like my bf.
2. trust. simple enough right? but i don't want to have to question him or have him question me. i dont want to have to question who he's talking to, who he's calling, or who he's going out with. i also don't want to have him question me in the same ways....i shouldnt have to call him every time i take a piss.... there should be enough trust in the relationship to know that nothing sketchy is going on.
3. i want my boyfriend to think im the most beautiful thing in his life. i don't want my faults pointed out because let's be honest....i do enough of that myself.
4. i deserve to be treated like a princess damnit. i want romance, i want affection, i want attention. i want cute phone calls just to say hi. i want a rose on a tuesday just because. i want a kiss when u think nobody's looking......i deserve it just because
5. i want comedy. i need someone who can match the comedic timing of me and most of my friends. if you can't keep up with us...it just couldn't work out. my friends and i are pretty damn funny when we get together. we are just two tons of fun.
6. i need someone who is outgoing. i can't carry the weight of another person at a party or in social situations. i want to go out and have a damn good time and not worry about him being stuck against a wall or in a corner or cowering in fear from the craziness that exudes my life.
7. intelligence is important....honestly...i swear!! i want a challenge in my life. i want to have someone match me or be way above my level of intelligence. it makes me feel mature and grown up to talk about stuff beyond daily life. i want to talk about elections, and the war, and religion, and feelings, and stuff like all that.
to be continued.....
1. it is important to me that my husband/bf get along with my friends. at this point in my life, my friends are what drive me. they are my family here in new orleans (granted i have family around here), so their opinions are what matter to me. they are my objective conscience, so what they say matters to me. it is important to me that my friends like my bf.
2. trust. simple enough right? but i don't want to have to question him or have him question me. i dont want to have to question who he's talking to, who he's calling, or who he's going out with. i also don't want to have him question me in the same ways....i shouldnt have to call him every time i take a piss.... there should be enough trust in the relationship to know that nothing sketchy is going on.
3. i want my boyfriend to think im the most beautiful thing in his life. i don't want my faults pointed out because let's be honest....i do enough of that myself.
4. i deserve to be treated like a princess damnit. i want romance, i want affection, i want attention. i want cute phone calls just to say hi. i want a rose on a tuesday just because. i want a kiss when u think nobody's looking......i deserve it just because
5. i want comedy. i need someone who can match the comedic timing of me and most of my friends. if you can't keep up with us...it just couldn't work out. my friends and i are pretty damn funny when we get together. we are just two tons of fun.
6. i need someone who is outgoing. i can't carry the weight of another person at a party or in social situations. i want to go out and have a damn good time and not worry about him being stuck against a wall or in a corner or cowering in fear from the craziness that exudes my life.
7. intelligence is important....honestly...i swear!! i want a challenge in my life. i want to have someone match me or be way above my level of intelligence. it makes me feel mature and grown up to talk about stuff beyond daily life. i want to talk about elections, and the war, and religion, and feelings, and stuff like all that.
to be continued.....