drama
highflyingf18, now is your chance to discuss what happened yesterday with other members in ilovemysoldier. Most of the MODS saw the posts, not all the comments before the post was being deleted.
The first problem that people have were with you discussing rank. One of the rules in the community says; 6) Don’t discuss people’s names/ranks! I realize and understand you feel out of place because your man is an officer but all you asking made a lot of people think you have this holier-than-art-tho attitude and that you're better than them because your man is higher rank. It's like you wanted to rub it in their faces and/or seem like you wear his rank on your shoulder. Let the issue go on this already. You are no better because you are with an officer, you didn't earn the rank, he did and you have no right to be acting like you are better just because he's an officer.
The second problem that people have were with how you kept deleting your post, then making a new one. This is not necessary. You don't need to make a post saying how you deleted your post, then make another one on how people are saying things. This clutters up the community AND only creates drama. You obviously had problems with some members, which brings me to the rule I told you TWICE yesterday; 8) If you have a problem with another member of the community, please take it to a MOD to discuss your concern instead of the member. You had your chance TWICE to bring this issue to me plus all the other times when it first started. The user info has a way to contact most of the MODS. As far as name calling, I have no idea who was all doing it but I did see yours. This was uncalled for, it should have gone to a MOD and next time (if it happens), make sure you do go to a MOD instead.
Now, you need to calm down a bit and the only time you should be posting, is when you have a VALID question and/or story. Like your previous posts, there was nothing wrong with them except for one, where you call people in the Navy fags. We're not a community to discuss ranks or shit like that. We are all in the community together because we have something in common; a loved one in the military. Rank doesn't matter, marriage doesn't matter. We let anyone in the community, as of now. We are a pretty laid back community until drama happens.
If you want to keep up your shitty attitude, you can leave. This is your warning, if you cause anymore drama, you will be banned. Most of the MODS want you banned now but I'm giving you the chance to back up what happened and tell me. Also, do NOT screen comments in the community. It defeats the whole purpose of a community, if you don't like what a member comments to you, ignore it. Do NOT delete them either because if it were true and helpful, it'd show you can't take critisim very well. Be an adult and act mature, don't act like we're back in high school or even middle school. We don't want it in the community.
The first problem that people have were with you discussing rank. One of the rules in the community says; 6) Don’t discuss people’s names/ranks! I realize and understand you feel out of place because your man is an officer but all you asking made a lot of people think you have this holier-than-art-tho attitude and that you're better than them because your man is higher rank. It's like you wanted to rub it in their faces and/or seem like you wear his rank on your shoulder. Let the issue go on this already. You are no better because you are with an officer, you didn't earn the rank, he did and you have no right to be acting like you are better just because he's an officer.
The second problem that people have were with how you kept deleting your post, then making a new one. This is not necessary. You don't need to make a post saying how you deleted your post, then make another one on how people are saying things. This clutters up the community AND only creates drama. You obviously had problems with some members, which brings me to the rule I told you TWICE yesterday; 8) If you have a problem with another member of the community, please take it to a MOD to discuss your concern instead of the member. You had your chance TWICE to bring this issue to me plus all the other times when it first started. The user info has a way to contact most of the MODS. As far as name calling, I have no idea who was all doing it but I did see yours. This was uncalled for, it should have gone to a MOD and next time (if it happens), make sure you do go to a MOD instead.
Now, you need to calm down a bit and the only time you should be posting, is when you have a VALID question and/or story. Like your previous posts, there was nothing wrong with them except for one, where you call people in the Navy fags. We're not a community to discuss ranks or shit like that. We are all in the community together because we have something in common; a loved one in the military. Rank doesn't matter, marriage doesn't matter. We let anyone in the community, as of now. We are a pretty laid back community until drama happens.
If you want to keep up your shitty attitude, you can leave. This is your warning, if you cause anymore drama, you will be banned. Most of the MODS want you banned now but I'm giving you the chance to back up what happened and tell me. Also, do NOT screen comments in the community. It defeats the whole purpose of a community, if you don't like what a member comments to you, ignore it. Do NOT delete them either because if it were true and helpful, it'd show you can't take critisim very well. Be an adult and act mature, don't act like we're back in high school or even middle school. We don't want it in the community.