In Mariya's Defense
Okay now I'm going to try and do this in the most civilized manor I know possible. This post is not inteded to start any stupid drama bullshit, I'm doing it to try and defend my friend Mariya. First of all, Mariya is one of my favorite people. Shes honest, and always says it like it is. She tells you what you need to hear, even if you dont want to hear it. Shes a loyal friend, and I love her to death. I realize I'm only 16, and there's alot about life I have yet to learn, but I know for a fact and I've been told that I've lived a lot more of life at my age that most people have not. That could be a good thing or bad thing, I like to think of it as good since I'm not oblivious to what goes on around me. Anyways, I want to get straight to the point.
So Mariya went out with Matt for quite some time, and recently realized it would be in best interest to her and him both to break up with him. Yep, she cheated on him a very long time ago also. That was wrong of her and she knows it, and she's the one who had to live with the guilt of that every day. However that was all a very long time ago, and even though she should have told him and didnt, it was no one elses place to do that AT ALL. Shayna I really don't see how u could do that, It would be one thing if you were doing it for Matt's sake, but you could give 2 shits about his well being or feelings, that was just something for u to do to screw things up for Mariya. Mariya finally had enough, and truthfully told it like it was. I'm not trying to step on Shayna and kts toes by saying this either, but EVERYONE can agree that Mariya had some points about the ireesponsibility things.
Shayna and Katie:
What gets me is that you both took such offense to Mariya "mothering" you, or what not. She freaking cared about you both to not want to see you screw things up for yourselves, which is what you guys were close to doing. Yeah, I realize u guys didnt want to take orders from her or have her tell you what to do, but it WAS some what necessary at times. Plus, would you rather have someone who does ALOT to make sure you make good decisions or could give a shit less about what you do and watch you screw up? I'd rather have someone tell me what to do. Then theres the whole thing that Mariya never tried to publicly embarass either you on this twisted world of live journal. Now Kt you didnt really do this but Shayna, that letter you wrote to Mariya.. its one thing for you to vent, but you wrote shit in there that was not even true! at all! and you know it! and if u didnt know it, you shouldnt say things you arent sure about. Mariya hasnt slept w/ 20 people. Mariya didnt "use" francis. He wasnt just another dick to her. Cuz lets thing about this, if some girl is trying to just get some, they find a virgin. Ummm, no. not exactly. And she hasnt gone back to just f-in around w/ francis, b/c stuff only happened once w/ them. Its just really childish to try and make her look bad b/c your pissed. We all know you guys are pissed. But its not making anyone look any better by bad mouthing the other person now, is it. Also..the new friendship that both of you have..if your gonna learn anything from both of your friendships w/ eachother: try honesty. The 3 of you, you guys and Mariya, hid alot of stuff from e/o. Talked behind e/o's backs. You both know damn well you've done that w/ eachother too.. not a smart move if u dont want all this to happen to u guys again.
Once again, I'm not trying to point fingers, i think everyone involoved is guilty of something. But I can't just sit back and hear shit thats NOT EVEN TRUE. Mariya got screwed over repeatedly.. she never screwed u guys out of money did she? she never went to your ex or current bf and told them the stuff they dont know about did she? she could of, but she didnt. I dont want this to screw up where i stand w/ u guys (kt and shayna) but if it does, then i guess it does. I have to do what I think is right, and thats by putting all this out there.
I love your guts Mariya. Do what YOU want to do, and what ever is going to make you happy. Dont worry about what anyone else has to say about it. If you being happy means hanging out w/ francis or kevin or matt or what everrrr then thats your buisness! Just be you.
Oh and this Karma thing, I agree. What goes around DOES come around. Talking shit will bite everyone in the ass. Only the people who partake in it though.
-Noel
So Mariya went out with Matt for quite some time, and recently realized it would be in best interest to her and him both to break up with him. Yep, she cheated on him a very long time ago also. That was wrong of her and she knows it, and she's the one who had to live with the guilt of that every day. However that was all a very long time ago, and even though she should have told him and didnt, it was no one elses place to do that AT ALL. Shayna I really don't see how u could do that, It would be one thing if you were doing it for Matt's sake, but you could give 2 shits about his well being or feelings, that was just something for u to do to screw things up for Mariya. Mariya finally had enough, and truthfully told it like it was. I'm not trying to step on Shayna and kts toes by saying this either, but EVERYONE can agree that Mariya had some points about the ireesponsibility things.
Shayna and Katie:
What gets me is that you both took such offense to Mariya "mothering" you, or what not. She freaking cared about you both to not want to see you screw things up for yourselves, which is what you guys were close to doing. Yeah, I realize u guys didnt want to take orders from her or have her tell you what to do, but it WAS some what necessary at times. Plus, would you rather have someone who does ALOT to make sure you make good decisions or could give a shit less about what you do and watch you screw up? I'd rather have someone tell me what to do. Then theres the whole thing that Mariya never tried to publicly embarass either you on this twisted world of live journal. Now Kt you didnt really do this but Shayna, that letter you wrote to Mariya.. its one thing for you to vent, but you wrote shit in there that was not even true! at all! and you know it! and if u didnt know it, you shouldnt say things you arent sure about. Mariya hasnt slept w/ 20 people. Mariya didnt "use" francis. He wasnt just another dick to her. Cuz lets thing about this, if some girl is trying to just get some, they find a virgin. Ummm, no. not exactly. And she hasnt gone back to just f-in around w/ francis, b/c stuff only happened once w/ them. Its just really childish to try and make her look bad b/c your pissed. We all know you guys are pissed. But its not making anyone look any better by bad mouthing the other person now, is it. Also..the new friendship that both of you have..if your gonna learn anything from both of your friendships w/ eachother: try honesty. The 3 of you, you guys and Mariya, hid alot of stuff from e/o. Talked behind e/o's backs. You both know damn well you've done that w/ eachother too.. not a smart move if u dont want all this to happen to u guys again.
Once again, I'm not trying to point fingers, i think everyone involoved is guilty of something. But I can't just sit back and hear shit thats NOT EVEN TRUE. Mariya got screwed over repeatedly.. she never screwed u guys out of money did she? she never went to your ex or current bf and told them the stuff they dont know about did she? she could of, but she didnt. I dont want this to screw up where i stand w/ u guys (kt and shayna) but if it does, then i guess it does. I have to do what I think is right, and thats by putting all this out there.
I love your guts Mariya. Do what YOU want to do, and what ever is going to make you happy. Dont worry about what anyone else has to say about it. If you being happy means hanging out w/ francis or kevin or matt or what everrrr then thats your buisness! Just be you.
Oh and this Karma thing, I agree. What goes around DOES come around. Talking shit will bite everyone in the ass. Only the people who partake in it though.
-Noel