when i was four years old
they tried to test my i.q.
they showed me a picture
of 3 oranges and a pear
they said,
which one is different?
it does not belong
they taught me different is wrong...
~from "My IQ" by Ani DiFranco
Dear Clothing Manufacturers,
Do you think it would be possible to produce a line of clothing for women who are both fat and
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Self-love is incredibly important no matter what size one is. Some of the most beautiful people I've known have been overweight or even obese by medical standards, but were comfortable in their own skin and embraced who they were. If you're happy with the way you look, it shouldn't matter that clothing manufacturers run on a different agenda. You can make your own clothes or put the talents of the many seamstress-types you know into use. If you're not happy with the way you look, you need to really look at why that is the case. In my case, I realized I didn't really care about beauty standards. They didn't accommodate me when I was 17, weighed 108 pounds, and wore a size 5 either. I did care about the fact that I was on track to develop all the health problems that run in my family and then some, and that I did not know how to eat healthily at all. I've been learning how to do so, and I've been seeing results that coincide with the moderate course I've taken. I will never be a size-1 wisp of a woman. I will always have curves, and they'll always be in places where the clothing manufacturers don't expect them to be. But a big step for me has been learning to be comfortable with that fact, and I'm there.
Anyway, that's my story. Sorry if it got a little long. I have a lot of opinions about size acceptance -- what it really is, and what others have tried to turn it into. Being comfortable with one's body is a very good thing. So is wanting to be fit and healthy. Too many people seem to think the two are mutually exclusive, and I have a big problem with that. But that's something I'd much rather discuss over coffee than on LJ.
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I too have a closet full of clothes that don't fit me anymore and I won't get rid of them because I want to wear them again someday. I want to be smaller like I used to be, but I can't seem to get motivated to do something about it. I know it would be smart and that I'm risking my health and that I feel better when I'm smaller. I just resent the idea that I can't be accepted and liked the way that I am. I don't trust diets. I'd have no idea which one I should try. There is more...about loving the self and feeling denied, but I'll get into that in person.
Thank you for sharing all of this. I really never mind when people get long-winded when talking with me. Unless they are full of it.
Oh...and someone I was with the other night thinks you have a really nice body. ;)
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How does coffee tomorrow after work sound? I'd say today, but I think I'm going to take advantage of the fact that it's the longest day of the year and I have a Jeep Liberty that can hold my bike without a rack.
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