counseling day one of 3
so today was my day to meet with the marriage counselor. she's a tough lady in her late 50s with a phd and calls it like it is. just gave her my take on the last 4 years and what lead up to the total break down a month or so ago. She also had me take a personality test. T goes in tomorrow for the same thing then we meet on wed to compare notes so
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To which I just have to say... if you need to talk, I'm here to listen.
And no matter what happens, your little girl WILL get at least ONE GOOD parent- you.
And she'll know it, too, when she gets older and is able to really understand things, even if you only see her on the weekends because you work. Kids can be dumb, shallow and superficial as they get older, yes, but at the same time, they can be more insightful and intelligent than anyone ever gives them credit for.
They know when one or both of their parents really didn't want to have a child, or ignored the implications of what it meant to have a baby and had one anyway. They know when their parents are only still together just for their sake. (I have a friend right now whose wife is pregnant, and it's just a bad situation all around. Beyond bad, really, but anyway...)
If you two DO work it out, I sincerely hope it is for you two, and NOT JUST for your daughter.
*hugs* But, on the plus side, you do have a beautiful little girl that's all yours. *grin*
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