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Last night was awesome..Chelsea and I went to Grace early watch Minority Report with Tim, Josh, and Mark. It was fun and we ordered pizza cause we forgot to eat dinner. The movie was better that i remembered and i forgot about all the twists so it was good...Then sr. high started at 7 30...it was battle of the sexes which was soo much fun. And someone who we havent seen 4eva came !! We talked 4 a while and it was rly cool to catch up. So the games were bball shootout, pillow fighting haha, mind puzzles, baking cookies (of course the girls one that one...we baked ours in a heart shape lol) and a dance of..which the guys won !!! haha. It was all very competitive :) Then we sat down and split up and we got to write down all the things that we wanted the guys to know...so guys who are reading this..this is what we wrote.
1. It means so so much to us when you notice the little things...say hi, or I like your haircut...we love it more than you know :)
2. Be consistent...you can't talk to us one day, and blow us off the next..cause we will go home and like cry..your friendships mean more to us that any of you know..
3. Don't act all mature and caring when your around us, and then act like you dont care when your with us and your friends are around..that just makes us hate you..if you care about us, you care about us..it shouldnt change when your friends are around
ARE YOU WRITING THESE DOWN ???
4. PLEASE PLEASE say what you want to say to us...don't go through our friends..if you want to know why we are upset or mad, ask us, don't wonder why with you friends..it means so much to us if you just come up and say "are you ok"
5. Express your feelings..don't just let us yell at you and take it, we want to know how you feel too..don't be afraid to tell us..you are not any less of a man if you are n touch with your emotions!!
6. You need to understand that guys and girls are different...girls bond through girl talk..guys bond through wrestling..its just how God made us..its not bad, so don't always assume that we're drama queens and we have something bad to say when we want to talk.
7. Be clear about your intentions..and we will with ours. We love hanging out with you and giving you hugs..but it doesnt always mean that we like you! Often we just want to have you as friends..and if that leads to a relationship then it will..but we always want to be friends first. It doenst go from aquaintence straight to bf and gf...get it?
8. When you talk to us..you need to use language we will understand, like girl talk..we will try to use guy talk when we're talking to you..it just makes things easier..
I think thats it...haha...but take our advice pleeease! It would make everything SOOOOO much easier..
So back to last night haha...after we sat down and told each other what we thought would make our relationships better..we ended for the night..Mark and Gina went and had a meeting with Dorian about sr. high which i think went well, although when we looked in, it seemed like Dorian was doing most of the talking..and being mad..Chelsea and I talked to Jason and tried to arrange lunch with the guys on Sunday..
Tonight We are all going to see Becky and Chrissy's play Tommy. It should be fun..Then sunday we're going out 4 lunch with the guys and then I'm going to see Harry Potter with my fam in Boston...I've heard it's awesome so Im wicked excited...but the director used to direct french porno movies! How weird is that! And its the 1st Harry Potter thats been pg-14! "gasp!" haha....
Wow..this was a wicked long entry...if no guys read this i will be mad..I think i will print it out and hand it out on the streets of Boston hahahaha. jk..but that would be funny. Maybe the world would change for the better.. haha
Peace hommies... :)
1. It means so so much to us when you notice the little things...say hi, or I like your haircut...we love it more than you know :)
2. Be consistent...you can't talk to us one day, and blow us off the next..cause we will go home and like cry..your friendships mean more to us that any of you know..
3. Don't act all mature and caring when your around us, and then act like you dont care when your with us and your friends are around..that just makes us hate you..if you care about us, you care about us..it shouldnt change when your friends are around
ARE YOU WRITING THESE DOWN ???
4. PLEASE PLEASE say what you want to say to us...don't go through our friends..if you want to know why we are upset or mad, ask us, don't wonder why with you friends..it means so much to us if you just come up and say "are you ok"
5. Express your feelings..don't just let us yell at you and take it, we want to know how you feel too..don't be afraid to tell us..you are not any less of a man if you are n touch with your emotions!!
6. You need to understand that guys and girls are different...girls bond through girl talk..guys bond through wrestling..its just how God made us..its not bad, so don't always assume that we're drama queens and we have something bad to say when we want to talk.
7. Be clear about your intentions..and we will with ours. We love hanging out with you and giving you hugs..but it doesnt always mean that we like you! Often we just want to have you as friends..and if that leads to a relationship then it will..but we always want to be friends first. It doenst go from aquaintence straight to bf and gf...get it?
8. When you talk to us..you need to use language we will understand, like girl talk..we will try to use guy talk when we're talking to you..it just makes things easier..
I think thats it...haha...but take our advice pleeease! It would make everything SOOOOO much easier..
So back to last night haha...after we sat down and told each other what we thought would make our relationships better..we ended for the night..Mark and Gina went and had a meeting with Dorian about sr. high which i think went well, although when we looked in, it seemed like Dorian was doing most of the talking..and being mad..Chelsea and I talked to Jason and tried to arrange lunch with the guys on Sunday..
Tonight We are all going to see Becky and Chrissy's play Tommy. It should be fun..Then sunday we're going out 4 lunch with the guys and then I'm going to see Harry Potter with my fam in Boston...I've heard it's awesome so Im wicked excited...but the director used to direct french porno movies! How weird is that! And its the 1st Harry Potter thats been pg-14! "gasp!" haha....
Wow..this was a wicked long entry...if no guys read this i will be mad..I think i will print it out and hand it out on the streets of Boston hahahaha. jk..but that would be funny. Maybe the world would change for the better.. haha
Peace hommies... :)