How to charm me
Remember me, especially if we barely met. I'm used to not making much of an impression, and love it when it's clear that I did. Bonus points if I comment in your LJ and you take the time to try and figure out who I am.
Make an effort to spend time with me. I'll do all the work if I have to, and usually I do, but someone who goes out of their way to make time for me and invite me to things makes me swoon. Even just calling to say hi counts for a lot.
If a plan falls through, let me know that you're disappointed too, and that you'd like to schedule something else for another day. It doesn't have to be right away, it's just nice to know that I'm not the only one who wants a raincheck.
If you want to flirt with me, be bold, be forward! No woman has ever been as forward as I'd like, let alone gone too far. Everyone does shy, try something different for a change.
If we're anything more than just friends, tell me how you feel about me. Tell me regardless of what you have to say; whether you have a lot to say or only a little; whether you're clear on your feelings or not; whether you expect your feelings to change tomorrow or remain constant for all eternity. Use words - nothing else works for me. I know this is hard for some but it's more important to me than anyone realizes.
[Edit: I may be having too much fun. If you keep this up, I might get spoiled!]
Make an effort to spend time with me. I'll do all the work if I have to, and usually I do, but someone who goes out of their way to make time for me and invite me to things makes me swoon. Even just calling to say hi counts for a lot.
If a plan falls through, let me know that you're disappointed too, and that you'd like to schedule something else for another day. It doesn't have to be right away, it's just nice to know that I'm not the only one who wants a raincheck.
If you want to flirt with me, be bold, be forward! No woman has ever been as forward as I'd like, let alone gone too far. Everyone does shy, try something different for a change.
If we're anything more than just friends, tell me how you feel about me. Tell me regardless of what you have to say; whether you have a lot to say or only a little; whether you're clear on your feelings or not; whether you expect your feelings to change tomorrow or remain constant for all eternity. Use words - nothing else works for me. I know this is hard for some but it's more important to me than anyone realizes.
[Edit: I may be having too much fun. If you keep this up, I might get spoiled!]