Let's turn the cuddling poll sideways. As a reminder the 4 activities are: cuddling/spooning/sleeping together, kissing/petting, playing, and sex
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Can you rank some or all of these activities from least to most intimate, even partially? playing/sex/cuddling-spooning-sleeping together/kissing-petting Yes, I know I'm weird.Are some of them prerequisites for others? No, not really. I sometimes do things in orders that I'm not comfortable with for a variety of reasons.What combinations do you typically do? They're all kind of stand-alone activities for me I think. Or at least I'm mostly happy with them being so. :) I'm not usually very comfortable kissing[*] while I'm playing though.Who do you do What with? For the most part I don't cuddle or kiss with someone unless I'd at least be comfortable having sex with them, even if we're not.What do you have to do for a relationship to count as X? I'm unlikely to do any of the above things unless I consider someone a friend. That's about the limit of what I can really quantify.
Heh, you had me wondering what exactly the rules of our little tradition were! For no good reason I'd assumed it applied to the *first* snowing-in, but for a minute there you had me wondering if it applied to *all* snowings-in. Which wouldn't be such a horrible fate, really... :)
playing/sex/cuddling-spooning-sleeping together/kissing-petting
Yes, I know I'm weird.Are some of them prerequisites for others?
No, not really. I sometimes do things in orders that I'm not comfortable with for a variety of reasons.What combinations do you typically do?
They're all kind of stand-alone activities for me I think. Or at least I'm mostly happy with them being so. :) I'm not usually very comfortable kissing[*] while I'm playing though.Who do you do What with?
For the most part I don't cuddle or kiss with someone unless I'd at least be comfortable having sex with them, even if we're not.What do you have to do for a relationship to count as X?
I'm unlikely to do any of the above things unless I consider someone a friend. That's about the limit of what I can really quantify.
[*] "A kiss" is not the same as "kissing"
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You are, but in the most lovable way. :)
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I'm kidding. :) It's pretty bad out there and the temp is falling... don't drive more than you need to.
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I thought it was just "hrm, the weather is bad, let's make Chris go out in it" tradition. ;)
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It is a nice tradition... pity it's a school night or I'd have been over directly. :)
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I wish I'd felt justified in claiming to be iced in again today. *sigh*
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