Matchmaking Theme
Name: Lupin
Do you have a gender preference for this theme?: I would prefer male please.
What character were you stamped as in the regular application for ninjafy and do you agree with that stamp? I got Shizune, and yes, I do agree with it for the most part, but I might come in for a restamping later on and see if I get anyone else different because she just doesn't seem to fit me as well as someone else might.
Please post the links to three applications you've voted on recently:
1. http://community.livejournal.com/ninjafy/703367.html#cutid1
2. http://community.livejournal.com/ninjafy/702548.html#cutid1
3. http://community.livejournal.com/ninjafy/702288.html#cutid1
Likes: Reading and writing, drawing, HTML, coffee, anything related to computers, anime and manga, foreign culture, languages, laughing, helping others, warm weather, rainy days, running errands, tedious tasks like secretarial work, cleaning, spending time with friends.
Dislikes: Disorganization, being wrong, falling, tripping, heights, humidity, wasting time, unfinished business, letting others down, letting myself down, not accomplishing something, being late, rude people, liars, thieves, abusers, weather over 85 degrees F (29.4 degrees C).
What do you feel is your best quality?: My ambition. To keep it short, this is what defines my personality for the most part. My stubbornness, willingness to do what most other's won't, my drive to become a better person, become more intelligent, skilled, etc. and a lot of other things that make me the kind of person that I am is due to my intense desire to go somewhere in life. I want to better myself and help others do the same. I for one do not want to be stuck somewhere and be like those who don't aspire to do much of anything.
Your worst?: My nativity. This is what holds me back a lot of the time. I am very green when it comes to the "outside world", although I am trying hard to get myself out there more and become less of the idiot that I am. Hopefully, with the plans that I have been making, I'll get some real life and common sense knocked into me soon. I'm most likely one of those people who needs shock treatments for this stuff.
You’d Prefer a Partner Who is More...
Mature or Immature?: Mature. I am mature myself for the most part, and so I need someone who knows when to be serious, even if they are a typically cheerful and laid-back kind of person. I know that I won't find this in an immature person.
Leader or Follower?: Leader. I am someone who is in between the two, so, I need someone who will take charge from time to time and will make decisions with me, or help me with my own. While I go my own way most of the time, I find myself needing second opinions and/or someone to reassure me a lot. So, someone who naturally takes charge and isn't afraid of making decisions will be better than someone who is a follower.
Optimistic or Pessimistic?: Optimistic. I am typically someone who is in between these (again). I believe that is called being a realist, but I tend to be more on the pessimistic side. It might annoy me, their optimism from time to time, but I will need someone who will keep saying things like, "It will be fine. Just keep working at it and believing," and "Don't worry, just do your best!" Just as long as they aren't optimistic in the way that it would even make other optimist's stomachs turn.
Impulsive or Cautious: Impulsive. But not enough that they throw caution to the wind and do something stupid. I guess someone who does not fear challenges or risks and is able to convince me to go along for the ride, as I will be the one who does the worrying, planning, and everything else that ensures we won't die or something.
Outgoing or Shy: Outgoing. I am mostly introverted and perfectly content with staying inside on the computer all day, but I know that this is not necessarily a good thing, so I will need someone who can convince me to do/be the same and break my shell, even just a little bit, or at least get me outside from time to time.
What are some traits that you'd love to see in a perspective partner? Oh, this is going to be a bit of a long one... Things that I would love to see in someone would include someone who is willing to be honest with me no matter what and realizes that I am (or should) be enough of a person to handle whatever that truth is, even if I might be upset for a while. I also want someone who is willing to spend time with me, even if we just talk over the phone. I don't want to be the one who is always calling and making plans, because then that makes me feel like I am the only one who really wants the relationship. Lastly, if that said person doesn't mind just walking around or playing video games for a date, that would be the icing on the cake.
Other than that, I would like for this person to have some sense of tidiness, is a hard worker, likes kids and animals, and does not have a repulsion for coffee, although they may dislike it if they wish. No, I will not live without my coffee. Overall, a kind and caring person with a sense of humor who will stand beside me as we take on life together.
What traits would you not like to see in them?: Too much dependency and being overly clingy. Seriously, if someone cannot fend for themselves and stand on their own two feet, I do not want to be near them, because I have this motherly instinct a mild wide, and I don't want a relationship where I take care of them all the time. I don't mind them depending on me and wanting to be with me, but there are lines that should not be crossed. Both of these are needed in a relationship, but only if they are balanced on both parts and are in a moderate amount.
Those who think that I will do whatever they say, makes all the decisions without me, are unhygienic, do not pull their own weight, make hasty assumptions, does not respect my personal space and boundaries/limits, helps me without asking, and do not trust me are other annoyances that I will not put up with.
General Questions about Love, Romance, and All That Jazz:
How would an ideal date for you go?: I really don't have an ideal date. It can go as bumpy or as smooth as it wants, but as long as we are able to enjoy some of the time we spend together, it will be good in my book. Plus, we could laugh at it later down the road. But to be honest, I have always had this kind of dream where we're just going around and doing random little things, and it suddenly starts to rain, so we have to use a newspaper as an umbrella before we finally duck into a cafe or something, and we're laughing at ourselves of course.
What do you feel is the most important part of any relationship?: Friendship and love. When you think of friends, you think of someone whom you can trust, respect, be yourself and be honest with, and have a good time with, right? That is all what we want in relationships, those basic things. Add love to th mix, and there you go. That is what is between the oldest couples, like my grandparents - 51 years this June.
What is your viewpoint on love in general?: Sometimes it shines, sometimes it rains. In the end, you'll have a lot of lemonade and have kissed a bunch of frogs before finally running into the price looking like a mess, but both of you realizing that something everyone is always talking about after your first argument.
Yes, I'm weird, I know. XD Basically, love isn't perfect, but if it's true, it'll be perfectly imperfect. Wait, that doesn't make sense either!
What would you say your favorite love song is & why?: Um, I have a few favorites... "Fly Me To The Moon" by Frank Sinatra, and "I Can't Help Falling In Love With You" by Elvis. They both represent what I wish was found in love everywhere no matter what: that people were able to say "I love you" to their loved one and get the same answer back, and that there was nothing behind their love or relationship than besides love.
The last one would be "The Ocean" by Mae:
You come over unannounced,
Silence broken by your voice in the dark.
I need you here tonight,
just like the ocean needs the waves...
First off, the music is just wonderful. Second, this song is about a relationship where if one of them is in trouble or not doing so well, the other is able to tell and comes to help somehow, and in this case, just being near. Just letting the other know that they'd be there for them. I just love that message.
Is there a character in Naruto that you feel you would NOT get along with in a relationship? If so, why? Hum. Aside from a lot of the antagonists because their morals go against my morals and even if I fall in love with them, there would be no way I'd compromise those? Sasuke. I wouldn't be able to live with the expectations that I am sure the Uchiha name would have, or the kind of person that he is. He has had too much pain in his life, and he needs someone else to help him let go, heal, and finally move on. I wouldn't be the kind of person he needs. Naruto would though. :)
Anything else? No, I believe that is it. Oh, wait. I don't like corniness either. Flowery poems in the mailbox and midnight serenades will only cause me (or my dad) coming out to chase them away with threats of bodily harm. Little things like bringing me coffee in the morning, or a small handmade gift for no reason will be adored to no end. Or just remembering my birthday (December 27; you can see why people might forget it).