I figured it out!

[nikay]

Boys are threatened by me and similar girls and are afraid of us. We have our lives planned to a degree that they could never wish for. We're smart, pretty, funny, etc, and generally don't suck. Boys look at us and realized that it's game over. There's two options. One: We break their hearts and they never look at other girls the same again. Two: We allow them to marry us. Both options terrify them.

If only that helped me feel better...