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i have a question for the men out there
its proper etiquette to call a girl the next day after you sleep with her, yes? i mean, something happened last week before i came to new york, and im really upset about it. i met this guy, he lives with a bunch of my friends over in orlando, and he liked my friend emily. well i guess he saw that emily liked another guy in the house, so he went after me. he was super sweet, said everything right, you know, totally fooled me into thinking he liked me. so i spent the night over there a few times, no sex though. we just slept together and kissed and whatnot. but he was very adamant about wanting to fool around. he would grab me and stuff and id have to say no no no and finally get him to calm down. well on the 4th of july, we slept together. i figured hey, its a holiday, and he really likes me and damnit i like him, despite all the warnings from his other roommates. so we have sex. he makes this comment about how hes going to "keep me" and stuff and i was perfectly happy.
well the next morning things are typically weird. i dont know why, though, because im just laying in bed looking at him get dressed for work, and he keeps asking me if something is wrong and there honestly was nothing wrong. the sex wasnt good, but first time sex is never good. so he goes off to work and i go home.
2 days later, still no phone call, which is weird because he was really making a fuss about liking me so much and whatnot. then i find out from emily that he just kinda changed his mind. "i dont have time for a girlfriend"
WTF?
ok so im not really upset about what happened, what im upset about is that he hasnt even had the balls to call me or email me and apologize. not so much as a word. i went to the house the other day, before i left, and we avoided eachother like the plague, when he shouldve pulled me aside and talked to me about it. it makes him seem more like an asshole when he wont even pay me the respect i deserve.
BOSTON IS COLD ITS LIKE 65 DEGREES OUTSIDE NIGGAZ.
its proper etiquette to call a girl the next day after you sleep with her, yes? i mean, something happened last week before i came to new york, and im really upset about it. i met this guy, he lives with a bunch of my friends over in orlando, and he liked my friend emily. well i guess he saw that emily liked another guy in the house, so he went after me. he was super sweet, said everything right, you know, totally fooled me into thinking he liked me. so i spent the night over there a few times, no sex though. we just slept together and kissed and whatnot. but he was very adamant about wanting to fool around. he would grab me and stuff and id have to say no no no and finally get him to calm down. well on the 4th of july, we slept together. i figured hey, its a holiday, and he really likes me and damnit i like him, despite all the warnings from his other roommates. so we have sex. he makes this comment about how hes going to "keep me" and stuff and i was perfectly happy.
well the next morning things are typically weird. i dont know why, though, because im just laying in bed looking at him get dressed for work, and he keeps asking me if something is wrong and there honestly was nothing wrong. the sex wasnt good, but first time sex is never good. so he goes off to work and i go home.
2 days later, still no phone call, which is weird because he was really making a fuss about liking me so much and whatnot. then i find out from emily that he just kinda changed his mind. "i dont have time for a girlfriend"
WTF?
ok so im not really upset about what happened, what im upset about is that he hasnt even had the balls to call me or email me and apologize. not so much as a word. i went to the house the other day, before i left, and we avoided eachother like the plague, when he shouldve pulled me aside and talked to me about it. it makes him seem more like an asshole when he wont even pay me the respect i deserve.
BOSTON IS COLD ITS LIKE 65 DEGREES OUTSIDE NIGGAZ.