Arguing=healthy???
So Melissa and I had a discussion today. Apparently, according to her, arguing is healthy in a relationship (to which she then pointed out that Josh and I are not in a healthy relationship). Josh and I never argue about anything, which is bad?? But what is there to argue about? I mean, she brought up exes, and things like that, but really. It's not either of our places to tell the other who they can and cannot hang out with, ex or not. She then pointed out that perhaps Josh and I have a "friend relationship" instead of a "dating relationship". To which I pointed out that we maybe just have a secure, mature relationship. We trust each other. He could tell me he's sleeping over at an ex's house, and I wouldn't care. I trust him enough.
So, is arguing healthy? She said that if we don't argue, we hold anger in. What anger? I mean, he's never made me angry or irritated me yet. I suppose the operative word is yet. But still. What on earth is there to argue about? And is it really healthy? What do you all think?
So, is arguing healthy? She said that if we don't argue, we hold anger in. What anger? I mean, he's never made me angry or irritated me yet. I suppose the operative word is yet. But still. What on earth is there to argue about? And is it really healthy? What do you all think?