I've been there, too. My ex never threatened my family, but he did threaten a few of my friends, he threatened to kill my cat, he told countless lies about me to other people, and at one point, he tried to kick me down a flight of stairs. Problem was, I stayed because I was terrified to leave. One night, when things got bad, I called the cops, they arrested him, and I got my shit and got out. I never talked to him since.
Two years later, I thought I'd passed by him in a mall, and I went into full panic mode; he freaked my out that badly. :(
That's awful. I'm glad that you got out. It can be really scary and dangerous to leave someone like that. I was afraid he'd turn into my sister's ex and just start showing up at our house and trying to get into her room (her room window overlooked the small overhang over the front door and there was a tree next to it so you could easily climb the tree and get to the overhang) and do other nasty things. But I'm glad I left him.
Oh gods. Yeah. I totally saw Stupid at a mall here (I still do NOT know what he was doing here -- I live a hour away from where he live/d) in 2007. I totally had a freakout. Thankfully we were still in the car and I don't think he saw me but I totally freaked out. It was awful.
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I've been there, too. My ex never threatened my family, but he did threaten a few of my friends, he threatened to kill my cat, he told countless lies about me to other people, and at one point, he tried to kick me down a flight of stairs. Problem was, I stayed because I was terrified to leave. One night, when things got bad, I called the cops, they arrested him, and I got my shit and got out. I never talked to him since.
Two years later, I thought I'd passed by him in a mall, and I went into full panic mode; he freaked my out that badly. :(
So, yeah, I can relate.
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That's awful. I'm glad that you got out. It can be really scary and dangerous to leave someone like that. I was afraid he'd turn into my sister's ex and just start showing up at our house and trying to get into her room (her room window overlooked the small overhang over the front door and there was a tree next to it so you could easily climb the tree and get to the overhang) and do other nasty things. But I'm glad I left him.
Oh gods. Yeah. I totally saw Stupid at a mall here (I still do NOT know what he was doing here -- I live a hour away from where he live/d) in 2007. I totally had a freakout. Thankfully we were still in the car and I don't think he saw me but I totally freaked out. It was awful.
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