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The shortest and surest way to live with honor in the
world is to be in reality what we would appear to be.
-Socrates
Live Authentically
Have you ever heard comments like these? “I didn’t know you were angry!” “Really? You were enjoying the party?” The true test of living authentically is when people perceive your feelings accurately. It sounds easy, but it takes courage, honesty, and an ability to be in the present moment.
It is so natural for many of us to lie about who we are and what we feel. Say that a woman you wanted to date calls you to ask if you want to go skiing. You might say, “Oh sure, I love to ski,” when in reality you gave up skiing years ago because you didn’t enjoy it. You tell yourself that if she discovers you don’t like skiing she won’t like you, so you lie to meet your need for acceptance and love. At the same time, you deny your need for authenticity, honesty, and fun.
It is a total relief to be authentic. No more hiding out, making up excuses, or lying to people. It can feel like a weight has been lifted from your chest. Imagine just being you, without worrying about how other people will receive you.
Be aware today of opportunities to be honest with
people because you desire to live authentically.