so
my grandfather has cancer
and what is absolutely mindboggling fucking amazing is that for a man who has pretty much been in a doctors office every other week for i dont know, the past year, they are just now diagnosing it......and it took my grandmother pointing it out before they even checked into it
unfuckingbelievable
otherwise, i'm just not quite sure what to say, we are still waiting on the results from the full body scan...but needless to say, my dad has not mentioned it to me, and my mom is freaking out because of the financial implications......so pretty much what is to be expected