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for christ sake people. this is worse than a messy breakup. stop freaking out and stop hurling insults(this includes everyone who commented on my last entry), maybe the whole situation is very grey and blurry but there are some things that are very clear:
taryn, i was never deliberatly mean to you, i just wanted you to do the dishes once in a while and not eat my food. im sorry if i was bitchy, thats the me you get when you are living with me. ask my family. bottom line here, best friends shouldnt live with eachother, and ive heard the same thing from many many people.
I never set out to be mean, and its very unfair to say i was never nice and never tried to be nice.
As for the whole thing about our dieing friendship...people change and relationships have to evolve with those changes, you guys just weren't willing to let things evolve. im not that same person i was in highschool, its too bad you found that unforgivable. its also too bad that you couldnt respect my opinions and choices regarding my life. you say that i should have respected your opinions, i do. i respect your opinions and choices regarding your life, but if respecting your opinion means changing my life to fit your opinion of how it should look, its not going to happen. i change for no one, and i live as i see fit not how other people think i should. I didnt ask you to like ron, i just wanted you accept that he was a part of my life.
it is nice to know that you accept part of the blame in all this. but to say that anyone would have acted the same in that situation is going a little far. i never would have done what you did. ever. even if i fucking loathed the guy you were with. you were my best friends and i never would have been that hateful towards either of you.
and now i am finished with the both of you, for good. some friendships dont last, even ones that were deep and lasted a long time. its just really shitty that you choose to end ours the way you did.
you'll find i disabled comments on my lj. this isnt an open forum anymore. my words and no one elses, im sure you can find somewhere else to put your thoughts on the matter.
dont talk to me, dont try and contact me in any way. im DONE.
taryn, i was never deliberatly mean to you, i just wanted you to do the dishes once in a while and not eat my food. im sorry if i was bitchy, thats the me you get when you are living with me. ask my family. bottom line here, best friends shouldnt live with eachother, and ive heard the same thing from many many people.
I never set out to be mean, and its very unfair to say i was never nice and never tried to be nice.
As for the whole thing about our dieing friendship...people change and relationships have to evolve with those changes, you guys just weren't willing to let things evolve. im not that same person i was in highschool, its too bad you found that unforgivable. its also too bad that you couldnt respect my opinions and choices regarding my life. you say that i should have respected your opinions, i do. i respect your opinions and choices regarding your life, but if respecting your opinion means changing my life to fit your opinion of how it should look, its not going to happen. i change for no one, and i live as i see fit not how other people think i should. I didnt ask you to like ron, i just wanted you accept that he was a part of my life.
it is nice to know that you accept part of the blame in all this. but to say that anyone would have acted the same in that situation is going a little far. i never would have done what you did. ever. even if i fucking loathed the guy you were with. you were my best friends and i never would have been that hateful towards either of you.
and now i am finished with the both of you, for good. some friendships dont last, even ones that were deep and lasted a long time. its just really shitty that you choose to end ours the way you did.
you'll find i disabled comments on my lj. this isnt an open forum anymore. my words and no one elses, im sure you can find somewhere else to put your thoughts on the matter.
dont talk to me, dont try and contact me in any way. im DONE.