Boys with Mommy Issues!
Hi everyone! Yes, my best friend finally got me to do this lol So hey, it's all good. Figured I'd start out with some recent things that have been going on. I've been trying to handle a lot of things lately, the one I'm going to mention now is my mother. I'm in a big time mourning process over her, even though she didn't technically die. She left my dad in divorce 5 years ago, and the divorce is still continuing now. It's really really hard for me and my dad. I can't very well explain the entire thing and it's EXTREMELY complex. If you don't feel like reading the history skip this next huge paragraph.
Basically here's the deal: my dad began, built, and expanded his very own business, which he has owned and been running for decades now (which he had long before he even met my mom). He also bought this house, same one we have now (once again, long before he met my mom). Yes, my dad made a lot of money, he was the one on his own when he was 15 years old and working rigs at 0300 (that's 3 a.m. if you didn't know) to get the things he had accomplished. I'm really proud of my dad for working so hard. But anyway, my parents met at a toga party (LOL I know i know! I can just imagine the lunacy) and a while later my mom is pregnant. They didn't get married until I was about 8 months up in there (ew) and (this is where you start to see how evil my mom is) my mom only married my dad because he had a lot of money, he was very successful, and her parents were Catholic. So yay, they're married. They were together for 14 years before my mom split, but we later found out after digging up all the records that she had been secretly planning the divorce since 1993, and considering they got married in 1988, that's sad. So yea, she was a secretary at my dad's business, and turns out (we later found records of this and plenty of evidence) she had been embezzling and stealing tens of thousands of money from my dad's company for years. She did this in a such a way (too complex to explain specifically but just believe me lol) that she made it look like my dad OWED her that money. So basically she stole the money, made it look like he owed her money, and then got the money AGAIN, so in reality she got TWICE what she originally stole. How psycho is that??? Normally when people steal they just take it! but noooo, my mom in freakin insane. Crazy crazy. Now we're in court all the time, and she forges documents, lies under oath, steals our mail (which is a federal offense), spies on us, makes up lies, creates false checks, etc etc way too many things to name. But anyway, enough of that.
So yea, now my insane crazy face mom is trying to take from us my father's business, our house, and $1,000,000. If you have any idea how much money that is then you're probably not believing me at the moment lol but that is 100% true; I read the court document myself. Sad thing is, she may actually get what she wants. It's really hard for me to have to deal with the fact that my entire childhood with my mother was all a lie... that she doesn't care if she puts me and my dad on the street after everything he gave her and everything he's worked for. It's hard to know you're mother is a monster. Sometimes I consider killing her (and yes, my psychologists and psychiatrists are all very concerned with how strongly I truly mean that statement), not out of pure anger, but I really do think I would be doing what's best for man kind. Our family isn't the only one she's screwed up and it won't be the last. She used to tell me about how she'd sleep with this guy to get this, or go out with that person to get money, or another person for something else, and it's just awful. Nose jobs, fake boobs, clear heels and cellulite = my mom Haha. but yea.. hard dealing with that. I'll write more later today maybe, this is waaaaay more than enough for now! Lol Thanks!
<3, Nick
Basically here's the deal: my dad began, built, and expanded his very own business, which he has owned and been running for decades now (which he had long before he even met my mom). He also bought this house, same one we have now (once again, long before he met my mom). Yes, my dad made a lot of money, he was the one on his own when he was 15 years old and working rigs at 0300 (that's 3 a.m. if you didn't know) to get the things he had accomplished. I'm really proud of my dad for working so hard. But anyway, my parents met at a toga party (LOL I know i know! I can just imagine the lunacy) and a while later my mom is pregnant. They didn't get married until I was about 8 months up in there (ew) and (this is where you start to see how evil my mom is) my mom only married my dad because he had a lot of money, he was very successful, and her parents were Catholic. So yay, they're married. They were together for 14 years before my mom split, but we later found out after digging up all the records that she had been secretly planning the divorce since 1993, and considering they got married in 1988, that's sad. So yea, she was a secretary at my dad's business, and turns out (we later found records of this and plenty of evidence) she had been embezzling and stealing tens of thousands of money from my dad's company for years. She did this in a such a way (too complex to explain specifically but just believe me lol) that she made it look like my dad OWED her that money. So basically she stole the money, made it look like he owed her money, and then got the money AGAIN, so in reality she got TWICE what she originally stole. How psycho is that??? Normally when people steal they just take it! but noooo, my mom in freakin insane. Crazy crazy. Now we're in court all the time, and she forges documents, lies under oath, steals our mail (which is a federal offense), spies on us, makes up lies, creates false checks, etc etc way too many things to name. But anyway, enough of that.
So yea, now my insane crazy face mom is trying to take from us my father's business, our house, and $1,000,000. If you have any idea how much money that is then you're probably not believing me at the moment lol but that is 100% true; I read the court document myself. Sad thing is, she may actually get what she wants. It's really hard for me to have to deal with the fact that my entire childhood with my mother was all a lie... that she doesn't care if she puts me and my dad on the street after everything he gave her and everything he's worked for. It's hard to know you're mother is a monster. Sometimes I consider killing her (and yes, my psychologists and psychiatrists are all very concerned with how strongly I truly mean that statement), not out of pure anger, but I really do think I would be doing what's best for man kind. Our family isn't the only one she's screwed up and it won't be the last. She used to tell me about how she'd sleep with this guy to get this, or go out with that person to get money, or another person for something else, and it's just awful. Nose jobs, fake boobs, clear heels and cellulite = my mom Haha. but yea.. hard dealing with that. I'll write more later today maybe, this is waaaaay more than enough for now! Lol Thanks!
<3, Nick