Where'd you go?

Jan 13, 2010 22:11

 What the fuck? I all of sudden got really pissed. I had an awesome day and I am going to go to bed early. But I just got a wave of fucking anger. Maybe this might be it. --> I went on my ex-boyfriends facebook today because I know his password. He has this new boyfriend. he is always more miserable than I am.  But this time I checked his facebook ( Read more... )

Leave a comment

noe_est_noire January 14 2010, 13:30:30 UTC
urgh, ex boyfriends are definitely one of the trickiest things we have to deal with in relationships, trust me I'm going through some exbf drama myself.
Look, in all blunt...ness...sity (i don't know how to phrase that) people move on and get happy after any relationship. I hate when my exboyfriends are happy. i wish we were spiders and we could just eat our mates after we're done with them, but that's cannibalism and it's illegal and immoral, so we have to cope. i'm sure after your relationship with Dan you were happy and content at one point, and I don't believe he's an emotionless person, so I'm sure there was a point where he felt the same way you're feeling with your happiness. Just understand that people move on, as you did, so will he. And drinking DOES NOT HEAL HEARTBREAK. trust me, I'm still paying the hospital bill. hahaha
you're not in love with closet case, tell yourself that until you believe it. It would be the most self destructive thing if you were. Sometimes we just need to get it through our heads that sometimes someone wants us for sex, when we want them for more than that; then, when the intentions are clear we need to change our mentality to theirs, it was JUST sex. I'm going through that as well with this boy from college.
I wish i could understand the reason why life allows cheaters to be happy after hurting someone so bad, again, I'm going through that myself.
GO TO COLLEGE.
And learn to live and be happy without a boy, sometimes since we're gay hormone-driven teenagers, we tend to think that without a boy we can't be happy. And you and I both know that's not true, enjoy the company of your friends and family (maybe not so much family) and be happy with the people around you who aren't fucking you, and not fucking you OVER.

the main points of this comment are:
-don't eat your exes
-boys are assholes
-don't cry and drink
-sometimes sex is just sex
-cheaters sucks and life sucks for being good to them
-GO TO COLLEGE
-be happy -(minus) boys...it'll benefit you during those dry months.

p.s. i look forward to reading your posts, keep them coming.

Reply


Leave a comment

Up