Looking for advice
So I've been bothered by an event that took place last night. I am not going to mention any names but I'll give the general story as to what happened. Anyways last night I went out with some friends and we went to this club, I don't need to state the obvious here. During the night one of the girls got really drunk and it became a major concern for me as she's someone that I care for and wouldn't want to see anything happen to her. So as we were about to leave the question was asked to her how she was getting home because she was obviously not in a state of mind to be doing so. So she replies with I am going to drive home. Then I told her that was not a good idea. I proposed that I would drive her home but then she asked if it would be a big deal for her to sleep over, I said not at all. Whatever you want to do is fine with me.
So later on we're almost back at the house where we all met and I asked if she was going to be sleeping over, he response was that she felt it wasn't a good idea. And the way that she implied the statement was almost like she felt I would have taken advantage of her. I've known this girl for about 5 years now and she's always looked up to be. Has even called me one of her best friends. Has always trusted me, confined to me, etc. So I was baffled but this needless to say. What ended up happening was we all went back to the house, grabbed some food and then she did end up driving home....but I still followed her regardless.
So I have been thinking about this all day and just wondered why she would think that. Does she think I would have taken advantage of her? Was she worried about taking advantage to me? I don't know. Maybe some some guys eye I might be looking like a pussy posting this but I am not that type of dude that would EVER take advantage of a girl. Especially one that I have cared for truly and deeply. With all that said I would love to hear some responses....cause at this point I don't know how to deal with it.
So later on we're almost back at the house where we all met and I asked if she was going to be sleeping over, he response was that she felt it wasn't a good idea. And the way that she implied the statement was almost like she felt I would have taken advantage of her. I've known this girl for about 5 years now and she's always looked up to be. Has even called me one of her best friends. Has always trusted me, confined to me, etc. So I was baffled but this needless to say. What ended up happening was we all went back to the house, grabbed some food and then she did end up driving home....but I still followed her regardless.
So I have been thinking about this all day and just wondered why she would think that. Does she think I would have taken advantage of her? Was she worried about taking advantage to me? I don't know. Maybe some some guys eye I might be looking like a pussy posting this but I am not that type of dude that would EVER take advantage of a girl. Especially one that I have cared for truly and deeply. With all that said I would love to hear some responses....cause at this point I don't know how to deal with it.