well, I thought it was a good rant. I can't tell you my experiences with those yarakashi. (Obviously I'm not living in Japan) But I met those kind of people. They don't only exist in the JE-fandom, but also with every oher famous band or group. There'll always be people who hate a certain group. In fact, the think it's fun to bash a member or the whole group and see how those little fans will react. Most of all they think that they are superiour to the fans and what they do is really 'cool'. Most of all they fell the best when they are hated. Because to be hated by the the ones they find ridiculous is most fullfilling to them....basically it's just fun for them and bacame an (expensive ) hobby.
So the best you can do is stay calm even if you are offended and proof that you are more mature than them. If you ignore them, sooner or later they loose interest and it all becomes boring to them. They go off and look for someone else to bother.
perhaps it sounds harsh, but I think it is good for kame and kattun to have experienced such a thing. It takes them back to the ground and makes them think. Not that I think they did something wrong, but I believe people need to be reminded that not everything is always fun and easy. Like you said, they'll learn and it builts their character....
god, somehow I think I've overdone it with this moral-thing.... but yeah...that's what I think...sorry for my english, perhaps it sounds a bit weird to a naitive speaker.
I can't tell you my experiences with those yarakashi. (Obviously I'm not living in Japan) But I met those kind of people. They don't only exist in the JE-fandom, but also with every oher famous band or group. There'll always be people who hate a certain group. In fact, the think it's fun to bash a member or the whole group and see how those little fans will react. Most of all they think that they are superiour to the fans and what they do is really 'cool'.
Most of all they fell the best when they are hated. Because to be hated by the the ones they find ridiculous is most fullfilling to them....basically it's just fun for them and bacame an (expensive ) hobby.
So the best you can do is stay calm even if you are offended and proof that you are more mature than them. If you ignore them, sooner or later they loose interest and it all becomes boring to them. They go off and look for someone else to bother.
perhaps it sounds harsh, but I think it is good for kame and kattun to have experienced such a thing. It takes them back to the ground and makes them think. Not that I think they did something wrong, but I believe people need to be reminded that not everything is always fun and easy.
Like you said, they'll learn and it builts their character....
god, somehow I think I've overdone it with this moral-thing....
but yeah...that's what I think...sorry for my english, perhaps it sounds a bit weird to a naitive speaker.
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