Boys who hit girls

Jul 21, 2006 20:07

My best friend is pregnant. And her ex is a total dumbass. He cheated on her 5 times and he pushed her around and hit her. I finally convinced her to get out of the relationship but hes basically stalking her. She's protecting him not because she wants to be with him, but because she's worried about what's best for her baby. I'm growing worried and I feel totally helpless. I cant MAKE her get out of the whole mess but I feel like I should do SOMETHING for her. All I can do is be here. Today he crossed a line with us. He's hit her before but he's actually having the audacity to ask her to come home and "talk". Then when she refuses he blows up and calls her a stupid bitch. Not uncommon. But he brought her parents into it and now they're taking his side and trying to tell her that I'm brainwashing her and that he never laid hands on her. I SAW HIM PUSH HER, HIT HER IN THE FACE, AND THROW A NIGHTSTAND AT HER! I'm afraid that he's going to kill her because he has threatened us both with it. He seems to think I'm the stem of all their problems. All I did was stand up to him when noone else would. I love my best friend more than anything in the entire world and I only want her to be safe. What do i do? I've called the cops before and we are all pushing for her to get a restraining order and change her number. I dont think a restraining order would do much for her right now though. I think he would walk right through it =/

Anyways. Thats it right now. I think Ill go hug her again =/
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