Movie: The Business of Being Born

Jan 11, 2008 00:16

I'm not going to pretend that I don't have a bias, because I was already in the homebirthing camp before I saw The Business of Being Born as a result of the birth experience of one of my best friends, a woman I refer to as "The Mama" in this journal ( Read more... )

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rivka January 11 2008, 14:52:02 UTC
I'd be interested in a birth-center birth if my excellent midwives practiced at one, but I don't have any desire for a homebirth. Honestly, I don't want to have to deal with the clutter in my house and the messiness of childbirth.

On the other hand, I would NEVER give birth in a medicalized practice. Even though I had Alex in a hospital, I used independent midwives with very low rates of interventions - so much so that I remember my birthing class instructor saying, "Okay, you're all clients of Kathy Slone, which means that I can skip the section on how to refuse an induction..."

I had a fantastic, low-intervention birth even though, with my disabilities, I had huge medical indicators suggesting that I was a likely C-section candidate. I think my good birth came largely from selecting the right providers.

Endorsing a hospital midwife birth is tricky, though. I read a really good book a couple of years ago: Giving Birth: A Journey into the World of Mothers and Midwives. It explores the way that midwifery is being co-opted by the medical establishment, where hospitals and OB practices are hiring midwives because they're cheaper and women like the touchy-feeliness, but then they're not really letting them practice midwifery. Hospital midwives are often directed by physicians behind the scenes, required to adhere to the 1cm-per-hour labor clock, etc.

So I caution anyone who's thinking of a hospital-based midwife birth, especially with a practice that also includes OBs, to ask probing questions about how independent the midwives really are. There are fully independent midwives who deliver in hospitals without the supervision of a physician - I know, because I gave birth with one. But that's not the only kind of hospital midwife.

nex0s, have you read Henci Goer's The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth? It seems like something you'd really like.

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nex0s January 11 2008, 14:56:20 UTC
No, but I've read Spiritual Midwifery like three times :) I'm about to order Ina May Gaskin's latest book on childbirthing that is for mothers in particular, and I'll add the book you recommend.

Right now though, I'm going to be pushing (LOL) for a homebirth. I feel that in NYC, the derth of birthing centers is a HUGE issue, and I feel that it's pretty much hospital or home here.

N.

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