Moving On

Jun 08, 2014 09:43

These two words equal to buckets of tears at the start. Lonely nights all cooped up in the sofa eating ice cream while watching that single stupid chick flick that both of you loved so much because you related to its "always and forever" kind of story. Just two words yet it takes up all the spirit, heart, and guts in us to do so. In moving on, you're risking a future where you might regret the very decision you made that you thought was right. However, moving on is significant when it comes to growing and becoming stronger. It doesn't always mean regret or goodbye, it means following what your brain tells you to do. Maybe it's not what your heart wants, but moving on is what your heart needs.

I realized that you'll never completely get over a person. There would always be that hint of "something" left in your chest whenever that person's name randomly comes up in a conversation or when you see his or her picture. You would still look back at the moments you had when you pass by that cafe you both went to whenever you wanted a caffeine boost or simply just to talk the sleepy day away. That person might even cross your mind when you're alone. There are only two things you might feel when these things happen: one, it might hurt and that would mean you regret moving on and that you still have feelings left for that person. Two, you might feel contented, happy, and thankful because that person stumbled upon your dull life and once brought color into your world. You picked up from where that person left and continued adding color into your life. That would mean you've moved on, because moving on doesn't mean crying your eyes out or looking for rebounds and all that revenge crap. Moving on means accepting and making yourself happy without depending on others.
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