So the past few days have been pretty good, if by pretty good you mean that people eavesdrop, form their own (false)assumptions, and tell everyone wrong information because they think they're doing something good. If anyone is actually interested in knowing the TRUTH, they are more than welcome to read on
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In regard to Megan, MY roommate, you put it best: "True, we don't have to live with her," you said, and therefore you are unable to understand what living with her is truly like. Lately, things have actually been quite a bit better here than they have been in the past, as far as my living conditions are concerned (but of course, because of your actions, I now have to deal with shit from her friends, as well). However, it seems that she simply does not understand things that are considered common sense to most people (leaving rotting food in the garbage causes a room to smell, smoking marijuana in the room multiple times causes the entire hall to stink, talking undly on the phone at three in the morning wakes people up, and leaving burning appliances plugged in starts fires). So, yes, I intentionally left her straightening iron plugged in. Seeing as I was here nearly the entire time, I wasn't especially worried that anything would be set on fire since nothing flamable was touching the appliance or surrounding area. I though that maybe if she was able to recognize the damaging results of her actions, that such behavior would cease.
Furthermore, we are perfectly capable of not sitting next to each other at meals, and we have done so many times. We have never gone with you, as a group, and chosen to sit elsewhere do to the lack of seats side by side. Never. However, when we are not invited and later show up at a meal to see everyone eating together, I honestly don't feel like sitting with you, whether or not Ian and I can sit next to each other. I don't feel like joining a group of people who obviously did not care enough to invite me in the first place.
Had our presence been desired at that party that Ian mentioned, we could have been notified that it was even happening. Yes, I read three away messages that told me a party was going on in Kevin's room, but why should I have assumed I was invited? Obviously, as with the situation mentioned above, I am very frequently *not* invited to things that the rest of the hall is welcome to. Granted, I was not on campus the majority of the day, but there are many ways I could have been contacted if I was invited to this party. What gave me more reason to believe that I was not invited was the fact that we saw Jess and Dana more than once, and they both seemed to be very watchful of their words (or lack thereof) in order not to let on that they were partying.
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