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i would just like to get this out of the way.
people say things they don't mean. and people say things that are taken out of context, or not understood correctly and misconstrued. and i realize that it hurts someone when that happens, but i think that they should believe the person when they say they didn't mean what was said in that way. or they should at least try to understand how it was meant. i feel badly that i hurt someone. and they can't/won't understand what i was trying to say. when people want to be mad they're going to be. i just wish they'd see that i wasn't trying to hurt them.
this person once told me that they had a habit of saying how they felt, and that they hurt people's feelings quite a bit. and they told me that they'd do it to me. i tried to make them understand that wouldn't happen, because nothing they could say would hurt me. i thought that went both ways.
i just wish things could stay uncomplicated. i hate complications. simplicity is key.
people say things they don't mean. and people say things that are taken out of context, or not understood correctly and misconstrued. and i realize that it hurts someone when that happens, but i think that they should believe the person when they say they didn't mean what was said in that way. or they should at least try to understand how it was meant. i feel badly that i hurt someone. and they can't/won't understand what i was trying to say. when people want to be mad they're going to be. i just wish they'd see that i wasn't trying to hurt them.
this person once told me that they had a habit of saying how they felt, and that they hurt people's feelings quite a bit. and they told me that they'd do it to me. i tried to make them understand that wouldn't happen, because nothing they could say would hurt me. i thought that went both ways.
i just wish things could stay uncomplicated. i hate complications. simplicity is key.