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This entry should not be read by ANYONE with a pre-conceived notion of how I speak or what is OK for me! This place is bullshit. I am so tired of one person being the source of 90% of the shit that happens in my family. I am tired of people being cruel and talking shit about people just to start trouble. The latest?? Someone told L that S f*&%ed her boyfriend. That is her sister. L is 4 months pregnant and has had problem after problem with her boyfriend. S didn't do it. She has tried to call her sister and tried to go talk to her, L will have nothing to do with it; she just keeps telling her to go away and leave her alone. I don't know how much more drama I can take... I had a melt-down this morning. I am sick and I have to work; what I want to do is go to bed, pull the covers up over my head with just my face out and hide, I mean sleep.
How can one person be so much trouble?? I have known this guy for 5 years, my daughter used to date her brother. He has caused trouble in my home ever since. When they were teenagers, he would come over w/out permission from his mom(when I thought he had it) and they would call and get mad at me for him being at my house. When he would fight with his mom or his brothers, he would come over to talk to my daughter and they would call and tell me to send him home to "deal with his problems with his family, like he should", after they had told him to leave. He and his brother would both come to my daughter to talk when they had problems... even with each other. I have had like 2 holidays in the past 5 years that didn't have some kind of drama from that family; involving him. Now why don't I just lose contact, you say? He is my grand-daughters father and the new babies father too. Now the drama involves the babies mom and him...and his mom and brothers and sister and the kids and his friends and their friends and his temper and.... I am just so tired! And to make matters worse, the daughter that he is involved with is the one who has been the main source of drama in my life for the last 22 years. I think I just need a break, my problem; where to go? the trouble follows me and if it doesn't, it is still there when I get back.
Anyone have an idea for a vacation?
How can one person be so much trouble?? I have known this guy for 5 years, my daughter used to date her brother. He has caused trouble in my home ever since. When they were teenagers, he would come over w/out permission from his mom(when I thought he had it) and they would call and get mad at me for him being at my house. When he would fight with his mom or his brothers, he would come over to talk to my daughter and they would call and tell me to send him home to "deal with his problems with his family, like he should", after they had told him to leave. He and his brother would both come to my daughter to talk when they had problems... even with each other. I have had like 2 holidays in the past 5 years that didn't have some kind of drama from that family; involving him. Now why don't I just lose contact, you say? He is my grand-daughters father and the new babies father too. Now the drama involves the babies mom and him...and his mom and brothers and sister and the kids and his friends and their friends and his temper and.... I am just so tired! And to make matters worse, the daughter that he is involved with is the one who has been the main source of drama in my life for the last 22 years. I think I just need a break, my problem; where to go? the trouble follows me and if it doesn't, it is still there when I get back.
Anyone have an idea for a vacation?