"I cannot self-terminate." - Clayton...actually...the Terminator.

Jul 20, 2004 12:27

Yeah...I got back Sunday night. Quite late. Here's a brief run-down of my trip: I left on Friday the 2nd. The car was acting up so we left late, but it turned out ok. We drove for quite a while until we hit North Dakota, saw some Dinosaur stuff, then went to Montana. We went to Little Big Horn Battle field, and then to Glacier National Park, which ( Read more... )

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nguinn August 13 2004, 10:21:01 UTC
The trip sounds lovely! Traveling is good. Do it while you can before you get trapped in a a permanent 40/hr week job or something.

I'm sorry to hear about Freya - my best wishes are with her!

I don't have any constructive crit or anything for you, hon. You've never done anything to bother or annoy me. (I came back to post this after seeing your more recent comment that no one had responded to your pleas).

The only thing I can think of whatsoever is this: After we'd met once or twice briefly, I remember walking through the club or seeing you in other social settings and you not making eye contact or acknowledging me, and being slightly removed. But that's not so bad. We'd just barely met, after all. I don't expect that everyone I meet once or twice is going to want to be my friend, nor am I the same way with others. That's just the way it goes.

Maybe the things Jackie said are true. Quick temper, maybe. Writing people off quickly, maybe. Over-reacting, possibly. Too serious sometimes, perhaps. *shrug* I dunno. I'm just guessing and throwing out ideas - don't take anything I say too seriously, sweetie.

We all do things. We all end up with people who don't like us for one reason or another. A woman I work with is the sweetest most caring person ever. But some people (a very few) don't like her because of that alone, or they think she's brown-nosing. People will always find reason to bitch.

All that aside now. Smile, and lighten up for a bit! Hope you have a good weekend! *hugs*

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nettlecarrier August 14 2004, 10:12:44 UTC
I appreciate the comment, even if you do feel it wasn't so helpful. At least making an attempt indicates that you care, which makes me feel all special.

I don't exactly remember the...blowing you off I suppose, but I certainly don't doubt it happened and will apologize. I tend to space out sometimes and that was probably all it was, which would explain the not remembering part. It certainly was nothing personal against you, I can assure you of that. But thanks for letting me know about it, so I can try to not be so spacey in the future.

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nguinn August 14 2004, 11:19:34 UTC
See, I do the same thing sometimes. I'll recognize that I've seen a person, but forget that we've actually been introduced and that I should perhaps show a little more recognition.

No need for an apology. It's something that happens not infrequently in a clubby dark drinking-friendly see-people-irregularly always-dressed-differently environment. Plus, I figure the cute girls (like yourself) have too many boys talking to them every week to be able to remember them all, especially the creepy old perv boys! ;>

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