My question is does it matter? After reading
this article it didn't change my thoughts or feelings about the series either way. I think its nice that she made it a point that the movies will not portray him incorrectly. It is after all her character and the point she is trying to make is a very good one.
It also explains the what was in the paper about Harry's and his relationship and why Harry was so upset over it.
I suppose its that same issue of a girl and a guy can't JUST be friends...