Update
Chris and I are doing okay now...for now..He is trying to talk to me more..I know it will take some time, so I am being as patient as I can.
Logan-
He is driving us crazy! He is getting more mouthy and has started talking back to us and arguing with us. He is now pulling the "Well when I was down in Texas with A-dumb( his sperm doner)...he let me....blah blah blah"...I dont know what to do. He even said " I dont have rules down there..so I want to go live with A-dumb and Marissa (ex's wife)."..That tore me apart! I started crying...and he changed his mind..I think cause he doesnt like to see me sad...I have given up everything (like a mother should) for him to be happy and healthy. I raised him by myself for a long time..and even had to get on welfare and daycare assistance to take care of him..I gave him as much as I possibly could...He doesnt understand that A-dumb doenst call or write, send pictures or any cards..for any holiday..and only takes him 1-2 times a year..when it is conveinient for HIM! He just knows that A-dumb buys him stuff (but doesnt want to pay his medical bills that he is supposed to pay 76% of)..A-dumb bought him a Tv, X-Box 360, games for the X-box, and other toys (none of which he is allowed to bring home with him and play with here..so he gets to have them 1-2 times a year!!)..He also lets him eat CRAP...and they eat out ALOT!!! We dont eat fast food much (if you call pizza fast food...then yes...we do eat that!!)..but we dont eat Mc Donalds, Wendy's..Burger King..ect.. I also am having trouble getting him to eat...I dont even know if he is even eating the lunch we are sending with him to school (he says he is..but who really knows!)..He makes himself sick if he doesnt want to eat something, and doesnt care if we make him go to bed afterwards cause he didnt want to eat..A-dumb has ADD or ADHD..not sure which...and I really think that Logan is too...but insurance doesnt cover him going to a "specialist"..Where can I take him to get checked? The doctor just tells me to take him to a "specialist"...but there has to be someone else!! I may have to take him to a Phyciatrist??? I am at my witts end..and so is Chris...I really hate seeing Logan like this..he has always been such a good boy!! And I know it isnt because Zahn is here now...he LOVES her (and I have talked to him about it).
Zahn-
She is getting so big!! She now has 5 teeth, and is walking like a champ!! The only time she really crawls now is if she cant get somewhere fast enough by walking. She will be ONE in 16 days (and counting down)..I am so excited! I bought her a polka dot dress at Target for $6.52,some leggings for $2.99..and a sweater (if it is chilly) for $12.99....LOVE IT!!
Thats about it!!!!
Logan-
He is driving us crazy! He is getting more mouthy and has started talking back to us and arguing with us. He is now pulling the "Well when I was down in Texas with A-dumb( his sperm doner)...he let me....blah blah blah"...I dont know what to do. He even said " I dont have rules down there..so I want to go live with A-dumb and Marissa (ex's wife)."..That tore me apart! I started crying...and he changed his mind..I think cause he doesnt like to see me sad...I have given up everything (like a mother should) for him to be happy and healthy. I raised him by myself for a long time..and even had to get on welfare and daycare assistance to take care of him..I gave him as much as I possibly could...He doesnt understand that A-dumb doenst call or write, send pictures or any cards..for any holiday..and only takes him 1-2 times a year..when it is conveinient for HIM! He just knows that A-dumb buys him stuff (but doesnt want to pay his medical bills that he is supposed to pay 76% of)..A-dumb bought him a Tv, X-Box 360, games for the X-box, and other toys (none of which he is allowed to bring home with him and play with here..so he gets to have them 1-2 times a year!!)..He also lets him eat CRAP...and they eat out ALOT!!! We dont eat fast food much (if you call pizza fast food...then yes...we do eat that!!)..but we dont eat Mc Donalds, Wendy's..Burger King..ect.. I also am having trouble getting him to eat...I dont even know if he is even eating the lunch we are sending with him to school (he says he is..but who really knows!)..He makes himself sick if he doesnt want to eat something, and doesnt care if we make him go to bed afterwards cause he didnt want to eat..A-dumb has ADD or ADHD..not sure which...and I really think that Logan is too...but insurance doesnt cover him going to a "specialist"..Where can I take him to get checked? The doctor just tells me to take him to a "specialist"...but there has to be someone else!! I may have to take him to a Phyciatrist??? I am at my witts end..and so is Chris...I really hate seeing Logan like this..he has always been such a good boy!! And I know it isnt because Zahn is here now...he LOVES her (and I have talked to him about it).
Zahn-
She is getting so big!! She now has 5 teeth, and is walking like a champ!! The only time she really crawls now is if she cant get somewhere fast enough by walking. She will be ONE in 16 days (and counting down)..I am so excited! I bought her a polka dot dress at Target for $6.52,some leggings for $2.99..and a sweater (if it is chilly) for $12.99....LOVE IT!!
Thats about it!!!!